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Jun 9, 2013 1:38 PM
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Orsonius said:
This show becomes more boring each episode... if it wouldn't end soon I think i'd drop it.

O_O,.... I guess you like you're action and shounen anime then.. I can't blame for not liking it just due to this show isn't about action or fighting, it's about making a MC that the people can relate with in his school life... I guess you can't understand that
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Nice episode... but I thought it was illegal to have 2 people on one bike in the city?
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kitkatxz said:
Orsonius said:
This show becomes more boring each episode... if it wouldn't end soon I think i'd drop it.

O_O,.... I guess you like you're action and shounen anime then.. I can't blame for not liking it just due to this show isn't about action or fighting, it's about making a MC that the people can relate with in his school life... I guess you can't understand that


I just had a glance at her profile and her favourite anime are all really good. It goes to show that sometimes things just don't do it for people.
Hachikuji: Araragi-san, you don't look even the least bit apologetic. You should at least say something after touching a girl's delicate chest!
Araragi: *Clueless look* Thanks?

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Jun 9, 2013 2:20 PM
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JacobGrey93 said:
kitkatxz said:
Orsonius said:
This show becomes more boring each episode... if it wouldn't end soon I think i'd drop it.

O_O,.... I guess you like you're action and shounen anime then.. I can't blame for not liking it just due to this show isn't about action or fighting, it's about making a MC that the people can relate with in his school life... I guess you can't understand that


I just had a glance at her profile and her favourite anime are all really good. It goes to show that sometimes things just don't do it for people.


Nah, This anime ends all conflicts in a non-violent/ melodramatic way, while most of her favs. due most of them a mysteries and thrillers.
Jun 9, 2013 2:25 PM

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kitkatxz said:
JacobGrey93 said:
kitkatxz said:
Orsonius said:
This show becomes more boring each episode... if it wouldn't end soon I think i'd drop it.

O_O,.... I guess you like you're action and shounen anime then.. I can't blame for not liking it just due to this show isn't about action or fighting, it's about making a MC that the people can relate with in his school life... I guess you can't understand that


I just had a glance at her profile and her favourite anime are all really good. It goes to show that sometimes things just don't do it for people.


Nah, This anime ends all conflicts in a non-violent/ melodramatic way, while most of her favs. due most of them a mysteries and thrillers.


I suppose but Bakemonogatari (one of hers and my favourite overall) is very much about the dialogue and Oregairu is pretty dialogue driven (admittedly not in the same way or to the same extent). I think she should rethink her stance on Oregairu anyway, it has plenty to offer in terms of how it handles real life situations, etc. It's an interesting, unconventional anime.
Hachikuji: Araragi-san, you don't look even the least bit apologetic. You should at least say something after touching a girl's delicate chest!
Araragi: *Clueless look* Thanks?

Bakemonogatari, Episode 5.
Jun 9, 2013 2:26 PM

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Orsonius said:
This show becomes more boring each episode... if it wouldn't end soon I think i'd drop it.


Well don't worry. There's only 3 episodes left for its end. If you think this story wouldn't suit for you, you can drop it as well. Thank you for supporting it till now! :)
Jun 9, 2013 2:29 PM

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psy8hillme said:
Orsonius said:
This show becomes more boring each episode... if it wouldn't end soon I think i'd drop it.


Well don't worry. There's only 3 episodes left for its end. If you think this story wouldn't suit for you, you can drop it as well. Thank you for supporting it till now! :)


She rated it as 3/10...
Hachikuji: Araragi-san, you don't look even the least bit apologetic. You should at least say something after touching a girl's delicate chest!
Araragi: *Clueless look* Thanks?

Bakemonogatari, Episode 5.
Jun 9, 2013 2:33 PM

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JacobGrey93 said:

She rated it as 3/10...


It still has a value though. I would take 3 rather than none. :D
Jun 9, 2013 2:37 PM
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psy8hillme said:
JacobGrey93 said:

She rated it as 3/10...


It still has a value though. I would take 3 rather than none. :D

Dude, if she no rating this the score UP 3 is lower than 7
Eh, i gave up on her she gave a loli show a 6 WTF? WTF????? that's when idc about a person opinion is that dumb.
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psy8hillme said:
JacobGrey93 said:

She rated it as 3/10...


It still has a value though. I would take 3 rather than none. :D


I'd rather take an non-vote, that way it wouldn't drag down the score. Not that I'd ask her to change it, we're all entitled to our own opinions, etc, etc.
Hachikuji: Araragi-san, you don't look even the least bit apologetic. You should at least say something after touching a girl's delicate chest!
Araragi: *Clueless look* Thanks?

Bakemonogatari, Episode 5.
Jun 9, 2013 4:50 PM

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JacobGrey93 said:


I'd rather take an non-vote, that way it wouldn't drag down the score. Not that I'd ask her to change it, we're all entitled to our own opinions, etc, etc.


Well I do agree with you most of the point. But it is her views. We cannot stop them from doing what they want. At least she was gave the point, while the story is still ongoing (actually the story are long way to go, currently it has 7 LN volumes, and there are rumor that there will be 7 more LN will be publish). Well that means she did miss a lot of point from her views.
Jun 9, 2013 5:14 PM

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Sagami pisses me off.
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OMG a high-school girl wants to have fun and be popular? FUCKING BITCH SHOULD DIE!!! And she's naive enough to let someone else do her work for her? HAHA, I HOPE IT BITES HER IN THE ASS AND RUINS HER LIFE!!! How dare a pretty girl be interested in something other than the weirdsmobile loner and his constant self-pitying!? I fucking hate BITCHES like that who don't go out with me- I mean Hachiman- because I'm -oh wait, I meant Hachiman again- "weird" or something. Fucking BITCHES. Fuck them.

Yui and Yukino are awesome though because they really "get" what I'm- oh wait, I mean Hachiman- is all about. They wouldn't betray me-oh wait... I meant Hachiman... God why do I keep doing that? I'm totally not using this show as an outlet to rage against all those stuck up BITCHES who weren't interested in me in highschool. Fucking BITCHES! I hate them!

Oh God, and that one stupid BITCH who had the gall to look up to Yukino's older sister? What a fucking insensitive BITCH! She should totally have realized that Yukino has some weird inferiority complex or some shit like that and butt the fuck out! God, and she wouldn't stop praising her sister for doing a really good job! FUCKING BITCH! How dare anyone but the weirdo, anti-social, loner do a good job? BITCHES!

Oh and that fucking BITCH older sister. Oh my GOD! What a fucking piece of crap! I don't even know why she's doing what she's doing, or what her actual relationship is with Yukino, but the show says she's bad and Yukino is uncomfortable with her so she's a fucking BITCH! How dare she support the popular girl who is totally gonna fail hard because this show knows it's audience and how to stroke their precious loner egos? BITCH! I fucking hate that BITCH! Butt the fuck out, BITCH!

Hachiman so cool!!! Oh my God!!! He is so cool!!! Just like me (except he actually has pretty girls that aren't BITCHES around him).

So glad this show exists to put all those BITCHES in their places...


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StopDropAndBowl said:
OMG a high-school girl wants to have fun and be popular? FUCKING BITCH SHOULD DIE!!! And she's naive enough to let someone else do her work for her? HAHA, I HOPE IT BITES HER IN THE ASS AND RUINS HER LIFE!!! How dare a pretty girl be interested in something other than the weirdsmobile loner and his constant self-pitying!? I fucking hate BITCHES like that who don't go out with me- I mean Hachiman- because I'm -oh wait, I meant Hachiman again- "weird" or something. Fucking BITCHES. Fuck them.

Yui and Yukino are awesome though because they really "get" what I'm- oh wait, I mean Hachiman- is all about. They wouldn't betray me-oh wait... I meant Hachiman... God why do I keep doing that? I'm totally not using this show as an outlet to rage against all those stuck up BITCHES who weren't interested in me in highschool. Fucking BITCHES! I hate them!

Oh God, and that one stupid BITCH who had the gall to look up to Yukino's older sister? What a fucking insensitive BITCH! She should totally have realized that Yukino has some weird inferiority complex or some shit like that and butt the fuck out! God, and she wouldn't stop praising her sister for doing a really good job! FUCKING BITCH! How dare anyone but the weirdo, anti-social, loner do a good job? BITCHES!

Oh and that fucking BITCH older sister. Oh my GOD! What a fucking piece of crap! I don't even know why she's doing what she's doing, or what her actual relationship is with Yukino, but the show says she's bad and Yukino is uncomfortable with her so she's a fucking BITCH! How dare she support the popular girl who is totally gonna fail hard because this show knows it's audience and how to stroke their precious loner egos? BITCH! I fucking hate that BITCH! Butt the fuck out, BITCH!

Hachiman so cool!!! Oh my God!!! He is so cool!!! Just like me (except he actually has pretty girls that aren't BITCHES around him).

So glad this show exists to put all those BITCHES in their places...


amidoingitrite?


^ Hahaha! Your post was entertaining to read. Nearly made my day sir. Though, I'm not sure if you think that Sagami is a bitch.
Jun 9, 2013 8:49 PM
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Sasami: There you go.

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yukinoshita is "sick" cultural fair is over gg lol
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Those three girls piss me off. get them off the show, if not things are going to start going downhill imo. I liked it more before they were properly introduced.
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StopDropAndBowl said:
OMG a high-school girl wants to have fun and be popular? FUCKING BITCH SHOULD DIE!!! And she's naive enough to let someone else do her work for her? HAHA, I HOPE IT BITES HER IN THE ASS AND RUINS HER LIFE!!! How dare a pretty girl be interested in something other than the weirdsmobile loner and his constant self-pitying!? I fucking hate BITCHES like that who don't go out with me- I mean Hachiman- because I'm -oh wait, I meant Hachiman again- "weird" or something. Fucking BITCHES. Fuck them.

Yui and Yukino are awesome though because they really "get" what I'm- oh wait, I mean Hachiman- is all about. They wouldn't betray me-oh wait... I meant Hachiman... God why do I keep doing that? I'm totally not using this show as an outlet to rage against all those stuck up BITCHES who weren't interested in me in highschool. Fucking BITCHES! I hate them!

Oh God, and that one stupid BITCH who had the gall to look up to Yukino's older sister? What a fucking insensitive BITCH! She should totally have realized that Yukino has some weird inferiority complex or some shit like that and butt the fuck out! God, and she wouldn't stop praising her sister for doing a really good job! FUCKING BITCH! How dare anyone but the weirdo, anti-social, loner do a good job? BITCHES!

Oh and that fucking BITCH older sister. Oh my GOD! What a fucking piece of crap! I don't even know why she's doing what she's doing, or what her actual relationship is with Yukino, but the show says she's bad and Yukino is uncomfortable with her so she's a fucking BITCH! How dare she support the popular girl who is totally gonna fail hard because this show knows it's audience and how to stroke their precious loner egos? BITCH! I fucking hate that BITCH! Butt the fuck out, BITCH!

Hachiman so cool!!! Oh my God!!! He is so cool!!! Just like me (except he actually has pretty girls that aren't BITCHES around him).

So glad this show exists to put all those BITCHES in their places...


amidoingitrite?


Act your age, old man. You might get a heart attack if you overexert yourself like that.
I know you have a lot of picking-a-fight to catch up to, but still... I've never seen you get so aggressive before
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StopDropAndBowl said:
OMG a high-school girl wants to have fun and be popular? FUCKING BITCH SHOULD DIE!!! And she's naive enough to let someone else do her work for her? HAHA, I HOPE IT BITES HER IN THE ASS AND RUINS HER LIFE!!! How dare a pretty girl be interested in something other than the weirdsmobile loner and his constant self-pitying!? I fucking hate BITCHES like that who don't go out with me- I mean Hachiman- because I'm -oh wait, I meant Hachiman again- "weird" or something. Fucking BITCHES. Fuck them.

Yui and Yukino are awesome though because they really "get" what I'm- oh wait, I mean Hachiman- is all about. They wouldn't betray me-oh wait... I meant Hachiman... God why do I keep doing that? I'm totally not using this show as an outlet to rage against all those stuck up BITCHES who weren't interested in me in highschool. Fucking BITCHES! I hate them!

Oh God, and that one stupid BITCH who had the gall to look up to Yukino's older sister? What a fucking insensitive BITCH! She should totally have realized that Yukino has some weird inferiority complex or some shit like that and butt the fuck out! God, and she wouldn't stop praising her sister for doing a really good job! FUCKING BITCH! How dare anyone but the weirdo, anti-social, loner do a good job? BITCHES!

Oh and that fucking BITCH older sister. Oh my GOD! What a fucking piece of crap! I don't even know why she's doing what she's doing, or what her actual relationship is with Yukino, but the show says she's bad and Yukino is uncomfortable with her so she's a fucking BITCH! How dare she support the popular girl who is totally gonna fail hard because this show knows it's audience and how to stroke their precious loner egos? BITCH! I fucking hate that BITCH! Butt the fuck out, BITCH!

Hachiman so cool!!! Oh my God!!! He is so cool!!! Just like me (except he actually has pretty girls that aren't BITCHES around him).

So glad this show exists to put all those BITCHES in their places...


amidoingitrite?
If you don't like the comments in the episode discussion forum then don't bother coming seriously you might get a heart attack with all that anger bro.
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kitkatxz said:
StopDropAndBowl said:
If you don't like the comments in the episode discussion forum then don't bother coming seriously you might get a heart attack with all that angry bro.
Did I hit a nerve?
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Jun 10, 2013 6:53 AM
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StopDropAndBowl said:
Did I hit a nerve?


No you posted an obnoxious, attention seeking comment.
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Lol so true.
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StopDropAndBowl said:
Did I hit a nerve?


Dunno if you hit anything but you sure were lashing about like a madman. What's gotten into you, picking a fight with 95% of all users who posted on this topic?
It's like a group meeting somewhere to have a party, then many hours later, the last one arrives, completely drunk, and starts yelling and flipping tables for no apparent reason.

What the heck, man?
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Naoki-Saten said:
StopDropAndBowl said:
Did I hit a nerve?


Dunno if you hit anything but you sure were lashing about like a madman. What's gotten into you, picking a fight with 95% of all users who posted on this topic?
It's like a group meeting somewhere to have a party, then many hours later, the last one arrives, completely drunk, and starts yelling and flipping tables for no apparent reason.

What the heck, man?

So this is a party, exclusive to like-minded individuals? Are opinions differing from the norm not allowed? Any color you'd like as long as it's black, eh?

I think the liberal use of the word "bitch" to describe any female that is even remotely perceived as being antagonistic to the MC's is indicative of the quality of said opinions, and thus the quality of said party...
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Jun 11, 2013 6:38 AM

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You don't have to agree, but please act with a bit of respect, or just act somewhere else.
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StopDropAndBowl said:
Naoki-Saten said:
StopDropAndBowl said:
Did I hit a nerve?


Dunno if you hit anything but you sure were lashing about like a madman. What's gotten into you, picking a fight with 95% of all users who posted on this topic?
It's like a group meeting somewhere to have a party, then many hours later, the last one arrives, completely drunk, and starts yelling and flipping tables for no apparent reason.

What the heck, man?

So this is a party, exclusive to like-minded individuals? Are opinions differing from the norm not allowed? Any color you'd like as long as it's black, eh?

I think the liberal use of the word "bitch" to describe any female that is even remotely perceived as being antagonistic to the MC's is indicative of the quality of said opinions, and thus the quality of said party...


You still don't get it, do you? I said, the 'last one', meaning you're part of said group. So why the heck are you drunk and why the heck are you blasting your own party?

The problem here is not your opinion. It's your aggressive manner.
Think about what you just did. You pictured all and every user who complained about Sagami and/or Haruno as some kind of childish, unpopular loser who are still didn't come to terms with their pathetic past, projecting it on the plot of Oregairu, "using this show as an outlet to rage" against all girls who weren't interested in them back in high school, calling ALL of them bitches.
You hastily imply that all those people you don't even know, who expressed a bit of their opinion, which dares differ from yours, have petty motives and weak nature.

You basically put all those people into one sack and wrote 'trash' on it.

Sir, that is a heavy accusatioin and a serious insult.

If it's just a way of expressing your opinion, then you're doing something wrong.

If you need another metaphor, it's like you don't have a watch on you, but you need to find out what time it is. There's a dude with a wristwatch right beside you. You could ask him what time it is and be done with it. But instead you beat the shit outta him, then rip the watch that's covered in blood from his twitching wrist and look at the display. While both methods enable you to archieve your objective, what's your motivation on going with the second one? Why in the world would you do that?!

You want to say that Sagami's and Haruno's behavior is completely tolerable, yet you imply that anyone who criticizes them does so because those girls are antagonistic to the MC. See the difference? Nobody stops you from simply stating your opinion but if you insult people, it's natural for them to get pissed.

So sober up already, old man. Before I start losing all respect of you.
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Naoki-Saten said:

The problem here is not your opinion. It's your aggressive manner.
Think about what you just did. You pictured all and every user who complained about Sagami and/or Haruno as some kind of childish, unpopular loser who are still didn't come to terms with their pathetic past, projecting it on the plot of Oregairu, "using this show as an outlet to rage" against all girls who weren't interested in them back in high school, calling ALL of them bitches.
You hastily imply that all those people you don't even know, who expressed a bit of their opinion, which dares differ from yours, have petty motives and weak nature.


This. Wanted to post a similar response, but NS pretty much covers it.

Also, I apologize if it feels like we're ganging up on you, but to be fair you're making it pretty hard not to.

Go and re-read your post and ask yourself, was there really no other way of expressing your opinion?
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Back to topic, NOW.


I have just read, that there will be an OVA, after the anime has finished.
As the Sidecharacter (Yui) usually gets dumbed or makes place I would appreciate it, if they would make an alternative ending out of it, just to give Yui her chance to confess finally.
( Yui and Hachiman would match better than him and Yukinon, imho. With her he will at least be able to change his attitude a bit)
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I thought it was clear that the post was meant to be taken as over the top. reversereality got it right. Hell, part of the appeal of the show for me is my loner past and my still-existent bitter, loner mentality. And yes, I think that the constant, automatic assumption that anyone in this show isn't a loner or a weirdo is a "bitch" or an "asshole" is definitely indicative of something within the audience. The main character walks around pretty much constantly looking down on everyone around him, and I'm supposed to think that this is perfectly acceptable behavior? It's treated as perfectly acceptable behavior by the audience, so what does that tell me about them?

Sure, I was that guy once, and then I woke up one day and thought to myself: "Hey, maybe the reason everyone is a "bitch" and a "dick" to me is because they can tell what I think about them and they don't like it any more than I like it when they look down on me."

The main heroine literally uses the "I'm so pretty that no one likes me" excuse. In my experience, the prettiest girl is usually the one with the most friends, not the least. Maybe she should try being an ugly, fat cow with bad acne and see how that works out for her. And that is part of the problem of this show and it's fan-base. Every single reason for the MC's being loners is glossed over as being the result of some good attribute. Yukino isn't ostracized because she's kind of an elitist bitch. No, she's ostracized because she's too pretty and smart and everyone is just jealous or in love with her. Hachiman isn't a loner because he's a self-pitying, elitist asshole, no it's because he's too perceptive. He's too smart. He's too sharp-witted for all those dumb-ass popular kids.

Nowhere do I state that Sagami's behavior is tolerable. But I'm also not going to condemn her (and by extension those real people who are like her) for being concerned with the things that most high-school girls are concerned with. Every single post in this topic that calls her a scheming bitch does precisely what you've accused me of doing: taking an entire group of people and lumping them together as trash. When I dared point out that Hayama is a really nice guy with a lot of good attributes, I was told to justify every assertion I made. Turnabout is fair play, so justify why Hachiman and Yukino deserve anything but scorn for the way they think about other people? They are dripping with venomous elitism and bitterness, so why should anyone treat them with even the slightest modicum of respect or tolerance?

Look at my fucking profile picture. Do I look like I'm gonna be gentle when I criticize something? Do I look like the type of guy that gives a shit about politely asking for the fucking time? Hell no. I'm a goddamn grumpy mother-fucker who's cereal gets shit in every goddamn day and I am sure as hell not gonna refrain from taking all that out on anyone who happens to catch my eye. Flipping tables? I'm gonna take a shit in the punchbowl for the lulz and if someone doesn't like it they can lick my hairy chest! (haha, didn't expect that one did you?)

On a side note, Hachiman is a great character. But let's stop pretending like he's flawless and that his being a loner is the result of his bravery in being different. That's a dangerous, anti-social mentality.
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I thought it was clear that the post was meant to be taken as over the top. reversereality got it right. Hell, part of the appeal of the show for me is my loner past and my still-existent bitter, loner mentality. And yes, I think that the constant, automatic assumption that anyone in thsis show isn't a loner or a weirdo is a "bitch" or an "asshole" is definitely indicative of something within the audience. The main character walks around pretty much constantly looking down on everyone around him, and I'm supposed to think that this is perfectly acceptable behavior? It's treated as perfectly acceptable behavior by the audience, so what does that tell me about them?

Sure, I was that guy once, and then I woke up one day and thought to myself: "Hey, maybe the reason everyone is a "bitch" and a "dick" to me is because they can tell what I think about them and they don't like it any more than I like it when they look down on me."

The main heroine literally uses the "I'm so pretty that no one likes me" excuse. In my experience, the prettiest girl is usually the one with the most friends, not the least. Maybe she should try being an ugly, fat cow with bad acne and see how that works out for her. And that is part of the problem of this show and it's fan-base. Every single reason for the MC's being loners is glossed over as being the result of some good attribute. Yukino isn't ostracized because she's kind of an elitist bitch. No, she's ostracized because she's too pretty and smart and everyone is just jealous or in love with her. Hachiman isn't a loner because he's a self-pitying, elitist asshole, no it's because he's too perceptive. He's too smart. He's too sharp-witted for all those dumb-ass popular kids.

Nowhere do I state that Sagami's behavior is tolerable. But I'm also not going to condemn her (and by extension those real people who are like her) for being concerned with the things that most high-school girls are concerned with. Every single post in this topic that calls her a scheming bitch does precisely what you've accused me of doing: taking an entire group of people and lumping them together as trash. When I dared point out that Hayama is a really nice guy with a lot of good attributes, I was told to justify every assertion I made. Turnabout is fair play, so justify why Hachiman and Yukino deserve anything but scorn for the way they think about other people? They are dripping with venomous elitism and bitterness, so why should anyone treat them with even the slightest modicum of respect or tolerance?

Look at my fucking profile picture. Do I look like I'm gonna be gentle when I criticize something? Do I look like the type of guy that gives a shit about politely asking for the fucking time? Hell no. I'm a goddamn grumpy mother-fucker who's cereal gets shit in every goddamn day and I am sure as hell not gonna refrain from taking all that out on anyone who happens to catch my eye. Flipping tables? I'm gonna take a shit in the punchbowl for the lulz and if someone doesn't like it they can lick my hairy chest! (haha, didn't expect that one did you?)

On a side note, Hachiman is a great character. But let's stop pretending like he's flawless and that his being a loner is the result of his bravery in being different. That's a dangerous, anti-social mentality.

Ignored :'( .

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StopDropAndBowl said:
OMG a high-school girl wants to have fun and be popular? FUCKING BITCH SHOULD DIE!!! And she's naive enough to let someone else do her work for her? HAHA, I HOPE IT BITES HER IN THE ASS AND RUINS HER LIFE!!! How dare a pretty girl be interested in something other than the weirdsmobile loner and his constant self-pitying!? I fucking hate BITCHES like that who don't go out with me- I mean Hachiman- because I'm -oh wait, I meant Hachiman again- "weird" or something. Fucking BITCHES. Fuck them.

Yui and Yukino are awesome though because they really "get" what I'm- oh wait, I mean Hachiman- is all about. They wouldn't betray me-oh wait... I meant Hachiman... God why do I keep doing that? I'm totally not using this show as an outlet to rage against all those stuck up BITCHES who weren't interested in me in highschool. Fucking BITCHES! I hate them!

Oh God, and that one stupid BITCH who had the gall to look up to Yukino's older sister? What a fucking insensitive BITCH! She should totally have realized that Yukino has some weird inferiority complex or some shit like that and butt the fuck out! God, and she wouldn't stop praising her sister for doing a really good job! FUCKING BITCH! How dare anyone but the weirdo, anti-social, loner do a good job? BITCHES!

Oh and that fucking BITCH older sister. Oh my GOD! What a fucking piece of crap! I don't even know why she's doing what she's doing, or what her actual relationship is with Yukino, but the show says she's bad and Yukino is uncomfortable with her so she's a fucking BITCH! How dare she support the popular girl who is totally gonna fail hard because this show knows it's audience and how to stroke their precious loner egos? BITCH! I fucking hate that BITCH! Butt the fuck out, BITCH!

Hachiman so cool!!! Oh my God!!! He is so cool!!! Just like me (except he actually has pretty girls that aren't BITCHES around him).

So glad this show exists to put all those BITCHES in their places...


amidoingitrite?

Too harsh said.I'm seeing so many of those and I've had enough classmates like her that these type of persons are nearly fading from existance in my sight.
Anyway,you should see that some of theyr points are correct.I dont know if this post is directed to me too,but if it is I must point out that I said from the beginning that I barely noticed her and I feel no hatred towards her.
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Did I hit a nerve?


Your initial post was the funniest one I have read in a long time, kudos.

People really shouldn't accept everything that 8man says as truth, particularly when it involves himself as his "read" on the Yui situation shows.

Also, the Japanese are really into non-verbal communication, they even have an expression for it "Kuuki or Yomu" "read the air". So you have to pay more attention to looks, glances, pauses, etc than you normally would in a western show.
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^ True, however Hachiman is a reliable character despite his strong opinions. The reason why he does profile and label people with accuracy is to find his way out of a "deadly" situation by adapting. It's like, "oh, it's this type of person, I know what to do now."

Lol, and you just gave me thought... Haven't any of you noticed that whenever there is fanservice in the show, it is always through Hachiman's perspective? It's never from the audience's.
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I'm glad we're back to discussing the actual series. Well then.

StopDropAndBowl said:
When I dared point out that Hayama is a really nice guy with a lot of good attributes, I was told to justify every assertion I made.


If my memory serves me right, that was around episode 3, was it not? Back then, there wasn't much material on Hayama, so him being a nice guy was just as valid assumption as him merely being one of Yumiko's bootlickers. We didn't know as much as we do now about him.
The same thing is happening with Haruno. We know that she is a scary person with a powerfull facade but we have yet to know her true nature, intentions or whose side she's on.
Is she a good or a bad person? The probability of both is about the same. Blame the lack of information.

StopDropAndBowl said:
And that is part of the problem of this show and it's fan-base. Every single reason for the MC's being loners is glossed over as being the result of some good attribute. Yukino isn't ostracized because she's kind of an elitist bitch. No, she's ostracized because she's too pretty and smart and everyone is just jealous or in love with her. Hachiman isn't a loner because he's a self-pitying, elitist asshole, no it's because he's too perceptive. He's too smart. He's too sharp-witted for all those dumb-ass popular kids.


I'm afraid you are mistaken. The reason why Hachiman is a loner has been explained in the very first episode, by non other than Yukino.

(FFF subs)
Yukino: "Based on what you've said, it seems that you're a loner because of your rotten personality and sour attitude."

Which Hachiman does not deny. Carrying on when Shizuka-Sensei joins the conversation:

Shizuka: Looks like you're having trouble rehabilitating Hikigaya here.
Yukino: It's because he doesn't recognize his own problem.
Hachiman: That's not what it is. What's with all this telling me to change? I don't want anyone telling me who to be. [...] Why can't you just accept who someone is now and was in the past?
Yukino: Because then... Because then no worries would get resolved. No one would be saved.

As you can see, the series never denied anything. Hachiman's problem has been clearly pointed out in the very beginning. And since Hachiman and Yukino's personalities are like two peas in a pod, it's pretty obvious that her not having any friends has the same reason. Her personality issues play just as big a role in her loneliness as the envy of her peers.

It's not like anyone is denying the main character's flaws. They are, in fact, so obvious that they do not need to be pointed out. Nobody said those flaws are a good thing (entertaining? hell yeah. but by no means commendable). They are merely not being discussed because everyone agrees tacitly that the character development will take care of that part.

StopDropAndBowl said:
Turnabout is fair play, so justify why Hachiman and Yukino deserve anything but scorn for the way they think about other people? They are dripping with venomous elitism and bitterness, so why should anyone treat them with even the slightest modicum of respect or tolerance?


"other people" is rather over-the-top. Those two do not look down on the entirety of the world. They never said or thought anything genuinely bad about Saika or Shizuka, for example. Most of the time, when they have spiteful words for someone else, it's because those people pose a potential threat (loners are wary of outside threats), contradict their philosophy or are already attacking them.

You pointed out how Hachiman and Yukino are self-pitying elitists full of bitterness. How they look down on other people. If you truly are the loner you claim to be, then you should be well aware of the fact that those flaws are, in fact, traits of loners. Hachiman and Yukino acquired them BECAUSE they were ostracized by others for a very long time. They haven't been like that since the very beginning. Their flaws are the effect, not the cause.

Remember Hachiman's flashbacks. He always tried to be more social. He tried to engage in conversations, exchange phone numbers, join events etc. His attitude was completely different from how he acts now. Yet he has been ostracized, he has been called gross, given weird nicknames, ignored, rejected over and over, given the role of 'tree' in a grade school play, as the only guy in his class, he was denied a dance partner and when he went out to play, he had to play by himself.

Are you saying that, considering all that, his bitterness is unjustified? That he's wrong for being wary around people, keep their distance from them, afraid of being hurt again?

Is the attitude of Hachiman and Yukino the reason they were alone at the beginning of the series? Definitely.

Are they the reason they were bullied ever since grade school?
Hell no.

Is that attitude acceptable?
I think that it is, in fact, acceptable. It's not the way you should live if you seek happiness and it's not the proper way to treat your peers. But all those elitist thoughts - Yukino and Hachiman keep them to themselves as long as they are not provoked. They never do anything malicious. Heck, they put their skills to good use and help people as part of their club activities.
So as long as they don't do anything bad, I will find their attitude acceptable. The only ones who suffer from it are themselves.
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You.....left me ....speachless,in a good way.You'd be one of a heck lawyer,I gotta get my pokeball,dont leave I must catch you and be no.152!
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You.....left me ....speachless,in a good way.You'd be one of a heck lawyer,I gotta get my pokeball,dont leave I must catch you and be no.152!


You better use a Master Ball, then!
Well, I'd have no complaints as long as you provide me food and money for the rest of my life. I didn't expect my dream of 'living without working' to come true so fast xD
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this episode was 3tense5me

^ Why isn't this updating...
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Sagami is just riding the train while Yukino conducts...

Haru was also not helping either, it seems like she just kept on agitating and provoking Yukino.

Hikigaya's "save" was kind of weird. I don't get it, he did that so Yukino would save face?
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Well of course, it was going to come down to that, to a cold.

And of course, our Chairman is off goofing of with her friends.

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Pretty depressing episode huh? :(
Lol HayaxHachi, Must-gay!
The Prince - Totsuka Saika!!! Can't wait for his perfomance

I loved how 8man talk for Yukinon and panicked when everyone attention to 8man
And Yukinon said "I'm sorry".. it's for 8man right?

So much hate for Sagami.... and Yukinon's sister

13man18 said:
Well of course, it was going to come down to that, to a cold.

And of course, our Chairman is off goofing of with her friends.


Well yeah, that's what good people got for covering lazy people
Poor Yukinon :(
8man ofc will help her

Naoki-Saten said:
I'm glad we're back to discussing the actual series. Well then.

StopDropAndBowl said:
When I dared point out that Hayama is a really nice guy with a lot of good attributes, I was told to justify every assertion I made.


If my memory serves me right, that was around episode 3, was it not? Back then, there wasn't much material on Hayama, so him being a nice guy was just as valid assumption as him merely being one of Yumiko's bootlickers. We didn't know as much as we do now about him.
The same thing is happening with Haruno. We know that she is a scary person with a powerfull facade but we have yet to know her true nature, intentions or whose side she's on.
Is she a good or a bad person? The probability of both is about the same. Blame the lack of information.

StopDropAndBowl said:
And that is part of the problem of this show and it's fan-base. Every single reason for the MC's being loners is glossed over as being the result of some good attribute. Yukino isn't ostracized because she's kind of an elitist bitch. No, she's ostracized because she's too pretty and smart and everyone is just jealous or in love with her. Hachiman isn't a loner because he's a self-pitying, elitist asshole, no it's because he's too perceptive. He's too smart. He's too sharp-witted for all those dumb-ass popular kids.


I'm afraid you are mistaken. The reason why Hachiman is a loner has been explained in the very first episode, by non other than Yukino.

(FFF subs)
Yukino: "Based on what you've said, it seems that you're a loner because of your rotten personality and sour attitude."

Which Hachiman does not deny. Carrying on when Shizuka-Sensei joins the conversation:

Shizuka: Looks like you're having trouble rehabilitating Hikigaya here.
Yukino: It's because he doesn't recognize his own problem.
Hachiman: That's not what it is. What's with all this telling me to change? I don't want anyone telling me who to be. [...] Why can't you just accept who someone is now and was in the past?
Yukino: Because then... Because then no worries would get resolved. No one would be saved.

As you can see, the series never denied anything. Hachiman's problem has been clearly pointed out in the very beginning. And since Hachiman and Yukino's personalities are like two peas in a pod, it's pretty obvious that her not having any friends has the same reason. Her personality issues play just as big a role in her loneliness as the envy of her peers.

It's not like anyone is denying the main character's flaws. They are, in fact, so obvious that they do not need to be pointed out. Nobody said those flaws are a good thing (entertaining? hell yeah. but by no means commendable). They are merely not being discussed because everyone agrees tacitly that the character development will take care of that part.

StopDropAndBowl said:
Turnabout is fair play, so justify why Hachiman and Yukino deserve anything but scorn for the way they think about other people? They are dripping with venomous elitism and bitterness, so why should anyone treat them with even the slightest modicum of respect or tolerance?


"other people" is rather over-the-top. Those two do not look down on the entirety of the world. They never said or thought anything genuinely bad about Saika or Shizuka, for example. Most of the time, when they have spiteful words for someone else, it's because those people pose a potential threat (loners are wary of outside threats), contradict their philosophy or are already attacking them.

You pointed out how Hachiman and Yukino are self-pitying elitists full of bitterness. How they look down on other people. If you truly are the loner you claim to be, then you should be well aware of the fact that those flaws are, in fact, traits of loners. Hachiman and Yukino acquired them BECAUSE they were ostracized by others for a very long time. They haven't been like that since the very beginning. Their flaws are the effect, not the cause.

Remember Hachiman's flashbacks. He always tried to be more social. He tried to engage in conversations, exchange phone numbers, join events etc. His attitude was completely different from how he acts now. Yet he has been ostracized, he has been called gross, given weird nicknames, ignored, rejected over and over, given the role of 'tree' in a grade school play, as the only guy in his class, he was denied a dance partner and when he went out to play, he had to play by himself.

Are you saying that, considering all that, his bitterness is unjustified? That he's wrong for being wary around people, keep their distance from them, afraid of being hurt again?

Is the attitude of Hachiman and Yukino the reason they were alone at the beginning of the series? Definitely.

Are they the reason they were bullied ever since grade school?
Hell no.

Is that attitude acceptable?
I think that it is, in fact, acceptable. It's not the way you should live if you seek happiness and it's not the proper way to treat your peers. But all those elitist thoughts - Yukino and Hachiman keep them to themselves as long as they are not provoked. They never do anything malicious. Heck, they put their skills to good use and help people as part of their club activities.
So as long as they don't do anything bad, I will find their attitude acceptable. The only ones who suffer from it are themselves.


Toooooo looongg I didn't read it all XD
But I understand what you mean
Blame the bully!! Hate the bully!!
And what are they now, they just adapt with their environment/society
For 8man, people just disgust at him.. maybe because of his appearance
For Yukinon, some people will know when they had a sister like Haruno
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Hachiman and Yukino acquired them BECAUSE they were ostracized by others for a very long time. They haven't been like that since the very beginning. Their flaws are the effect, not the cause.

Exactly my point. I've seen bullying happen, and it's not always the fault of the bullied, but if you are bullied in every single situation you get into, by every single person you meet... you need to start taking a look at yourself and how you may be causing that to happen. I don't buy into this sob story of someone who just happens to be the target of every bully and every single person in their life just happens to be a bully.

Remember Hachiman's flashbacks. He always tried to be more social. He tried to engage in conversations, exchange phone numbers, join events etc. His attitude was completely different from how he acts now. Yet he has been ostracized, he has been called gross, given weird nicknames, ignored, rejected over and over, given the role of 'tree' in a grade school play, as the only guy in his class, he was denied a dance partner and when he went out to play, he had to play by himself.

And if the cause of all that is being put out there as "well, it just happened", than I'm going to call bullshit on it because it is exactly that. Life doesn't work that way. Some people will be mean and nasty, sometimes whole groups of people will be mean and nasty. If every group is being mean and nasty to you, it almost certainly has something to do with you. And shows and books and movies that deny this truth are dangerous in the exact way that they encourage this mentality:

Hachiman: That's not what it is. What's with all this telling me to change? I don't want anyone telling me who to be. [...] Why can't you just accept who someone is now and was in the past?



It's a pity party and I don't buy into it any more.
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StopDropAndBowl said:
I've seen bullying happen, and it's not always the fault of the bullied, but if you are bullied in every single situation you get into, by every single person you meet... you need to start taking a look at yourself and how you may be causing that to happen. I don't buy into this sob story of someone who just happens to be the target of every bully and every single person in their life just happens to be a bully.

StopDropAndBowl said:

And if the cause of all that is being put out there as "well, it just happened", than I'm going to call bullshit on it because it is exactly that. Life doesn't work that way. Some people will be mean and nasty, sometimes whole groups of people will be mean and nasty. If every group is being mean and nasty to you, it almost certainly has something to do with you.


My point is, Hachiman's current attitude could not be the cause of all the bullying, because it is a loner's trait that has been acquired at a later time, as a result of said ostracising. Whatever was the cause back then, it's different from the current one.

StopDropAndBowl said:
And shows and books and movies that deny this truth are dangerous in the exact way that they encourage this mentality:

Hachiman: That's not what it is. What's with all this telling me to change? I don't want anyone telling me who to be. [...] Why can't you just accept who someone is now and was in the past?


It's a pity party and I don't buy into it any more.


Surely you don't suggest him to go ahead and change just because someone tells him to?
Before he can change, he has to understand in what way he has to change, realize the flaws of his reasoning, acknowledge that this kind of change is neccessary and truly believe it's the right thing to do.
So before he realizes all these things, any kind of change is pointless. The initiative must originate from him, not from someone else.

On a side note, though this kind of change is essential for his future, it would probably, at the same time, make him less interesting as a character. Also, the show would be pretty much over by that time, which is a bit sad ^^
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Was this episode's art off or is that just me? I haven't watched anything for the last couple of days so maybe I need to get used to anime again or shit.
Sagami is like the generic cool girl that doesn't do anything ay all lol.
Pretty good episode overall, but next episode is when shit will really happen.
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That chairwoman should diiieee!
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OMG a high-school girl wants to have fun and be popular? FUCKING BITCH SHOULD DIE!!! And she's naive enough to let someone else do her work for her? HAHA, I HOPE IT BITES HER IN THE ASS AND RUINS HER LIFE!!! How dare a pretty girl be interested in something other than the weirdsmobile loner and his constant self-pitying!? I fucking hate BITCHES like that who don't go out with me- I mean Hachiman- because I'm -oh wait, I meant Hachiman again- "weird" or something. Fucking BITCHES. Fuck them.

Yui and Yukino are awesome though because they really "get" what I'm- oh wait, I mean Hachiman- is all about. They wouldn't betray me-oh wait... I meant Hachiman... God why do I keep doing that? I'm totally not using this show as an outlet to rage against all those stuck up BITCHES who weren't interested in me in highschool. Fucking BITCHES! I hate them!

Oh God, and that one stupid BITCH who had the gall to look up to Yukino's older sister? What a fucking insensitive BITCH! She should totally have realized that Yukino has some weird inferiority complex or some shit like that and butt the fuck out! God, and she wouldn't stop praising her sister for doing a really good job! FUCKING BITCH! How dare anyone but the weirdo, anti-social, loner do a good job? BITCHES!

Oh and that fucking BITCH older sister. Oh my GOD! What a fucking piece of crap! I don't even know why she's doing what she's doing, or what her actual relationship is with Yukino, but the show says she's bad and Yukino is uncomfortable with her so she's a fucking BITCH! How dare she support the popular girl who is totally gonna fail hard because this show knows it's audience and how to stroke their precious loner egos? BITCH! I fucking hate that BITCH! Butt the fuck out, BITCH!

Hachiman so cool!!! Oh my God!!! He is so cool!!! Just like me (except he actually has pretty girls that aren't BITCHES around him).

So glad this show exists to put all those BITCHES in their places...


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I just cannot understand Sagami's hate. She's pathetic, but you don't have to act negative towards her (I have to find someone who points both qualities and flaws about her) and I personally like her despite her stupidness of her work as a chairwoman, I hope next episode will resolve her problems so that the school festival will work nicely and Sagami will grow deeply as a person.
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I am pretty much indifferent toward her, but your post made me wonder. I know about her flaws, but did she had any qualities? I am pretty sure that aside of her look there were none obvious.
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I am pretty much indifferent toward her, but your post made me wonder. I know about her flaws, but did she had any qualities? I am pretty sure that aside of her look there were none obvious.


I have heard somewhere that there's an anon who point out that Sagami have her own mentality and her reasons why she acts like that in the original novel.
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I am pretty much indifferent toward her, but your post made me wonder. I know about her flaws, but did she had any qualities? I am pretty sure that aside of her look there were none obvious.


I believe MisaoFan's point is everyone's being prejudicial towards the character who haven't got enough focus or depth to be hated this much. I'm that's what's the story wants but, let's face it, she's more realistic that any of the characters present in the story.
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MisaoFan said:

I have heard somewhere that there's an anon who point out that Sagami have her own mentality and her reasons why she acts like that in the original novel.


I didn't read novels in original, only very thorought summaries, but from that and from people who actualy read it, her mentality doesn't actualy help a much.


zetsuboSensei said:

I believe MisaoFan's point is everyone's being prejudicial towards the character who haven't got enough focus or depth to be hated this much. I'm that's what's the story wants but, let's face it, she's more realistic that any of the characters present in the story.


I never met girl like her who would need atention so badly, so I can't say if she is realistic or not, but truth is fictional characters in most times has some hidden depth which can't be said about lot of 3D. So I guess that's why she might be considered this way at least.

Also when Myura made her appearence, I didn't realy had problem consider her having good side, but I don't think Sagami were writen this way, though I don't realy care if I am mistaken.

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