A question just from curiousty

mobxmentality said:
what? are you asking for dating advice or what is the purpose of this thread?

lets just say if youre a "creepy, loner guy" and dont actively talk to people or there is nothing interesting about you then dont expect other people to show interest in you
relationships are a combined effort, dont expect others to just settle for you
it can happen but you'd have to be incredibly lucky and usually it stays wishful thinking
always try to make an effort

certifiedbinger said:
I don't think anyone would like a pathetic person, unless they knew and fell in love with such a person before they were pathetic.
Depends on the parameters of pathetic, I suppose.

I'd say true love would be two people who love and inspire each other to be better, to stand next to each other forever. So self improvement, in a sense, is an indispensable part of true love imo. If you're self aware and acknowledge your weaknesses, there will always be that drive to be better for your partner's sake. That's true love.

Franss12314 said:
I think it's impossible to love someone without seeing any qualities in them. So unless you like pathetic people, you wouldn't love one. I'd say true love is when you love someone beside their flaws because of their qualities.