| It's fantasy of course. But it's a beautiful and heart warming one |
| Quantum ille canis est in fenestra |
| Let me get this straight: IF you're the weirdo, in your school, fantasizing about slashing your classmates, with the knife you carry at all times, for laughing at you...you really, really should not and would not be interesting to this kind of girl. Even IF she existed^^ She's a device. A storytelling device to make boys in equal situations feel good. That's pretty much it. That's the beauty of Anime. You can, sometimes, escape and self insert. But let's be real: There is no Hottie waiting for the short, self-absorbed, sociopathic creep to show up at her door, in the real world^^ |
Merve2LoveJan 23, 2024 2:26 PM
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| fantasy of course, nobody sane would want a short creep in real life. especially not with that whole emo vibe. well, maybe short might be passable if you're confident enough but emo creep, definitely not. |
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Reply to Piromysl
They do, but they are basically unicorns. Mythical creatures, that some even question very existence.
You may thank social media and radical feminism for their near extinction.
You may thank social media and radical feminism for their near extinction.
| @Piromysl Men and women who neither stick out because of their bashfulness or creepiness tend to not have romantic success just seems like obvious cause and effect, especially as an adult. If people do not know one exists, how can they be attracted to these sorts of people? Putting ourselves out there is not just basic advice, it is an essential prerequisite for establishing any sort of healthy relationship. Alongside not giving off creepy vibes, depending on what is meant by creepy vibes. I do think these situations are more common among children and teenagers since they are forced to be in the same building with one another, whereas adults and college students are not compelled as much to be with one another outside of heir own volition. Of course, being pretty attractive with a certain aesthetic is a huge boost, do not get me wrong. |
PeripheralVisionJan 23, 2024 8:35 PM
| Auroraloose's Aurorasimp “Like poking a strange horny animal with a stick” -Fleurbleue the incredibly beautiful and sadistic Québécois |
| The true answer to this question is they don't exist, simply because 3D girls aren't as pretty as 2D. It's all propaganda created by the woke Americans. To make people like their Hollywood celebrities rather than anime waifus. I for one will never fall for such a diabolical trap |
| Its fantasy. Atleast here in my country. And youre post actually landed a reality check to me. As a degenerate, I realize how pathetic I am; a 32 year old unattractive greasy dude. Yes I have a nice job but thats it. I dont go to parties. I spend my money on steam games (ofcourse I help my family and Im proud of it). I dont get it because girls love nice guy. I'm pretty sure I'm a nice guy (never been in trouble or cheat with a girl) but girls prefer bad boys. I never first move to girls because I respect their privacy. I always give them personal space, hence why I dont have luck with girls. Again, @Zarutaku. This post hit me with reality check. Girls like Yamada dont exist. |
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| Damn the poll is very close ngl.. |
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| Of course they exist. Believe it!11!! |
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| There seems to be this association that just because someone is shy and introverted that makes them creepy. It doesn't, and by that same token "attractive" girls is based on perception. Everyone has different things they're attracted to/find attractive. I don't think its "fantasy" as some have made it out to be. Like another user mentioned... compatibility with the person is key. It is 100% possible for an extroverted girl to fall in love with an introverted guy. Does it happen all the time? Probably not, but it does happen. Personalities like Yamada's probably exist, but not the romanticized version that anime likes to show (and that's okay) it's a fun hobby we all enjoy because some things about it can be unrealistic. That doesn't mean some of these things don't happen. Do you know how many times I've been frustrated by drama in rom-com asking why such situations obviously escalate to misunderstandings? Fact of the matter is, those tropes happen all the time in the real world. People misunderstand, don't communicate well, and are all too eager to assume things that aren't based in fact. A very long-winded way of saying: stay positive about things, it's doable! |
"Even if the morrow is barren of promises... nothing shall forestall my return!"  |
ReverentStigma said: There seems to be this association that just because someone is shy and introverted that makes them creepy. Not necessarily, but it just so happens that Ichikawa is personated as both shy and creepy, especially at the beginning. |
Reply to Scootboi
Bro, no.
No 6'5" ish tall girl is fawning over the 5'2 manlet SS.
Best of luck bro
No 6'5" ish tall girl is fawning over the 5'2 manlet SS.
Best of luck bro
| @Scootboi Scootboi said: 6'5" ish tall girl Her character page on MAL says 171.9cm which is only like 5'7, pretty average height for a guy (after your growth spurt). |
Reply to soundtoxin
@Scootboi
Her character page on MAL says 171.9cm which is only like 5'7, pretty average height for a guy (after your growth spurt).
Scootboi said:
6'5" ish tall girl
6'5" ish tall girl
Her character page on MAL says 171.9cm which is only like 5'7, pretty average height for a guy (after your growth spurt).
| @soundtoxin i was only going off of ichikawa's size lol, dude must be like 4'9" |
Reply to Wickjohn31
@Scootboi he was 152 cm or 5'0 in s1 and 158 cm (5'2) in s2, he still has some growth spurt and he isn't lucky, Yamada is actually the lucky one here.
| @Wickjohn31 the anime definitely makes yamada seem like a giant compared to him, if she's 5'7 and he's 5'2 she looks way over a mere 5 inches taller than him lol |
| They do exist, I know beautiful women who fell for weird guys who are not conventionally handsome. I can probably count the ones I know on one hand though, so they are rare. Usually people get together with partners "on their level". |
| Seeing the votes almost even is the most baffling thing I've seen this year. |
xMyst93 said: Seeing the votes almost even is the most baffling thing I've seen this year. Why baffling? You think one of the 2 options should be dominating? Which one? |
| Is this one of those local incel conventions? Genuinely seems like people here don't go outside and believe anime characters are far more attractive than all real women who are all mercantile 304 looking for tall, attractive jock bfs, not smart and decently moral introverts. There are enough people like Yamada, you don't need to turn your waifu into reality to be happy in life, just start getting yourself out there more like Ichikawa. He would still be perceived as an asocial creep if he hadn't started showing his good sides to people around him and gradually getting recognised as a cool and likable guy. |
| I hate everyone equally |
| This thread is hilarious |
| From my personal experience, I have to say yes, it exists. But such a girl does not fall in love with a boy's shy and loner aspects but with his good and kind personality. And of course, this happens when the girl can imagine a good future for the boy. (For example, the boy is a good student and can get good grades, which was the case with Ichikawa, and his grades were good) But despite that, this was not unrealistic for me. Rather, what was unrealistic for me about this anime is that no girl can fall in love with a boy shorter than her (I have nothing to do with exceptions). Because girls are obsessed with height, the height of a boy is considered a top priority. it is important for them that the boy is taller than them. I have probably talked to a hundred girls about this so far, and there was no single case where a girl said she would be willing to have a romantic relationship with a shorter boy. Some even said they hated boys who were shorter than them. |
saeed1mDec 22, 2024 2:28 PM
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saeed1m said: From my personal experience, I have to say yes, it exists. But such a girl does not fall in love with a boy's shy and loner aspects but with his good and kind personality. And of course, this happens when the girl can imagine a good future for the boy. (For example, the boy is a good student and can get good grades, which was the case with Kyotaro, and his grades were good) But despite that, this was not unrealistic for me. Rather, what was unrealistic for me about this anime is that no girl can fall in love with a boy shorter than her (I have nothing to do with exceptions). Because girls are obsessed with height, the height of a boy is considered a top priority. it is important for them that the boy is taller than them. I have probably talked to a hundred girls about this so far, and there was no single case where a girl said she would be willing to have a romantic relationship with a shorter boy. Some even said they hated boys who were shorter than them. Even though I'm tall myself I find it really sad that short guys are so cooked in this world, such a sad preference of most ladies to only want taller guys. I would really like to see more tall girl x short boy couples in anime, to restore my faith in humanity. |
Reply to Scootboi
Bro, no.
No 6'5" ish tall girl is fawning over the 5'2 manlet SS.
Best of luck bro
No 6'5" ish tall girl is fawning over the 5'2 manlet SS.
Best of luck bro
| @Scootboi Who hurt you bro? Im jooking. It can happen, trust me on that. But, its ultra rare. When people go look for true connection and not other shallow things (in a way, is also a theme of the series) it can happen, but it must come from both sides, not only the girl/woman that needs to close her eyes in the shallow things, alot men also have the fantasy of getting someone like Yamada, but they only see her shallow part. "She is pretty and nice". For example, Ichikawa loved that she loves her work and that side of her and in the end, wanting her to go for the audition, instead of spending the rest of the trip with him. There is lessons here, that is why these series is so good. It can happen, but, like i said, its ultra rare. In a way, i saw me alot in Ichikawa when i was younger in a phase (but i also was older then him, guess my rebelious phase was in high school). |
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Reply to Viriathus
@Scootboi Who hurt you bro? Im jooking.
It can happen, trust me on that. But, its ultra rare. When people go look for true connection and not other shallow things (in a way, is also a theme of the series) it can happen, but it must come from both sides, not only the girl/woman that needs to close her eyes in the shallow things, alot men also have the fantasy of getting someone like Yamada, but they only see her shallow part. "She is pretty and nice". For example, Ichikawa loved that she loves her work and that side of her and in the end, wanting her to go for the audition, instead of spending the rest of the trip with him. There is lessons here, that is why these series is so good. It can happen, but, like i said, its ultra rare.
In a way, i saw me alot in Ichikawa when i was younger in a phase (but i also was older then him, guess my rebelious phase was in high school).
It can happen, trust me on that. But, its ultra rare. When people go look for true connection and not other shallow things (in a way, is also a theme of the series) it can happen, but it must come from both sides, not only the girl/woman that needs to close her eyes in the shallow things, alot men also have the fantasy of getting someone like Yamada, but they only see her shallow part. "She is pretty and nice". For example, Ichikawa loved that she loves her work and that side of her and in the end, wanting her to go for the audition, instead of spending the rest of the trip with him. There is lessons here, that is why these series is so good. It can happen, but, like i said, its ultra rare.
In a way, i saw me alot in Ichikawa when i was younger in a phase (but i also was older then him, guess my rebelious phase was in high school).
| @Viriathus I only have a small limit for copium so I cant fit that in there but as a fellow man I wish you luck |
Scootboi said: @Viriathus I only have a small limit for copium so I cant fit that in there but as a fellow man I wish you luck Bro... I live with the mother of my child. Im not in need of copium in that topic. |
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