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Mar 29, 2021 10:12 AM
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Is it just me or this actually feels like a shoujo anime but there is no shoujo tag
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Mar 29, 2021 11:15 AM
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It’s actually good đź‘€
Mar 29, 2021 12:19 PM
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MrBrawlz said:
Is it just me or this actually feels like a shoujo anime but there is no shoujo tag
I agree. The male MC felt like the usual male MC from any shoujo anime
Mar 29, 2021 12:24 PM
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Yes, reminds me of a Shoujo.
Mar 29, 2021 1:12 PM
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Because it is? I mean not with the tag in your face (Those are demographics and not genres per se) but by technicality is 100% Shoujo & Comedy. Very good and entertaining series.
Mar 29, 2021 1:57 PM
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RandomGuyScott said:
Because it is? I mean not with the tag in your face (Those are demographics and not genres per se) but by technicality is 100% Shoujo & Comedy. Very good and entertaining series.

Wait so am I the only one who found it unfunny?
Mar 29, 2021 3:36 PM
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Yeah it's josei and their fantasies are trash.
Oh my! My friend's hot brother that can set me up for life likes me, doushiyou?
Mar 29, 2021 7:06 PM
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Also feels very rapey. Older guy continually forcing his affections onto emotionally impressionable high school girl, despite her explicitly mentioning several times that it makes her uncomfortable.
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Mar 29, 2021 8:24 PM
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GoroTS said:
Also feels very rape-y. Older guy continually forcing his affections onto emotionally impressionable high school girl, despite her explicitly mentioning several times that it makes her uncomfortable.
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yup i cant remove the thought that hes grooming her
the sad thing is she's probably gonna fall in love with him for some reason and then ittl be all happy... 99.9% gonna happen
Mar 29, 2021 11:26 PM
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I am not a huge fan of age gap MOE, like literally he is 29-30yrs and she is 16-17.this was the reason I dropped AFTER THE RAIN,the girl was 17 and she like a 45 year old man with a child.But i think I am going to enjoy this for its comedy.
Mar 29, 2021 11:56 PM
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were you reacting same way when Domestic Girlfriend was airing. Where the teen guy was having sexual relationship with his teacher and sister.
there are many anime like that and I'm sure many of you enjoyed mangas and animes where teen boy has relationship with older woman and teachers.
hypocrisy of some people is funny.
Mar 30, 2021 1:26 AM
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ninka22 said:
were you reacting same way when Domestic Girlfriend was airing. Where the teen guy was having sexual relationship with his teacher and sister.
there are many anime like that and I'm sure many of you enjoyed mangas and animes where teen boy has relationship with older woman and teachers.
hypocrisy of some people is funny.

I agree. If something like this makes you uncomfortable, just don't watch it. To me, this is just a FICTIONAL romcom.
Mar 30, 2021 7:23 AM
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ninka22 said:
were you reacting same way when Domestic Girlfriend was airing. Where the teen guy was having sexual relationship with his teacher and sister.
there are many anime like that and I'm sure many of you enjoyed mangas and animes where teen boy has relationship with older woman and teachers.
hypocrisy of some people is funny.

Eh, Domestic sucked too but it was a hilarious and enjoyable ride. The issue isn’t the age gap; it’s only a factor into determining whether the younger party is really of emotional maturity to be making these kinds of decisions. In the case of Koi to Yobu, it seems (so far) that there is a power dynamic that stems from this age gap. I’m not going to try to defend Domestic, but the circumstances of the student-teacher “romance” were much more nuanced than the “romance” here. It made it a muddier and more morally ambiguous love, whereas older guy’s approach in Koi to Yobu is just wrong.
Mar 30, 2021 7:29 AM
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_alicia-chan_ said:
ninka22 said:
were you reacting same way when Domestic Girlfriend was airing. Where the teen guy was having sexual relationship with his teacher and sister.
there are many anime like that and I'm sure many of you enjoyed mangas and animes where teen boy has relationship with older woman and teachers.
hypocrisy of some people is funny.

I agree. If something like this makes you uncomfortable, just don't watch it. To me, this is just a FICTIONAL romcom.

Yeah, I agree. Let fiction be fiction. But when it fucks up and does something objectionable, it’s not automatically immune from criticism because it’s fiction.
Mar 30, 2021 4:44 PM
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Oh boi, the second series this season wherre they mingle with minors... thanks, but no thanks japan. You won't fool me that easily...
Apr 1, 2021 1:14 AM

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Yes, it does really feel like a shojo and I like that
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Apr 1, 2021 3:26 AM

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Male characters in Shojo are hella rapey so yeah this anime seems like one

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Apr 1, 2021 6:58 AM
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because it is ahaha
Apr 2, 2021 11:52 AM

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-Senku- said:
I am not a huge fan of age gap MOE, like literally he is 29-30yrs and she is 16-17.this was the reason I dropped AFTER THE RAIN,the girl was 17 and she like a 45 year old man with a child.But i think I am going to enjoy this for its comedy.


You shouldn't have dropped it. After the rain is a fantastic anime/story and while it's true that she has a crush on him, it's not really a romance at all.

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Apr 2, 2021 12:05 PM
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Don't know why people are comparing this to AFTER THE RAIN lol. This is a comedy with a 10yr age gap vs a 28yr gap Seinen romance. Not sure why 10 years is considered so extreme... it's the limits for sure but I wouldn't even consider it controversial.

There is nothing rapey about this...in fact the humour is based more on a Madonna-whore complex, than anything else. If you don't find it funny, then fair enough as comedy is subjective- but for all the other comments, you need to grow up.
Apr 2, 2021 12:06 PM
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Its prolly a shojo, and the reason i hate shojo
Apr 3, 2021 1:14 PM

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notsoirishmonk said:
Its prolly a shojo

It's josei not shoujo
Apr 4, 2021 1:42 AM

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GoroTS said:
ninka22 said:
were you reacting same way when Domestic Girlfriend was airing. Where the teen guy was having sexual relationship with his teacher and sister.
there are many anime like that and I'm sure many of you enjoyed mangas and animes where teen boy has relationship with older woman and teachers.
hypocrisy of some people is funny.

Eh, Domestic sucked too but it was a hilarious and enjoyable ride. The issue isn’t the age gap; it’s only a factor into determining whether the younger party is really of emotional maturity to be making these kinds of decisions. In the case of Koi to Yobu, it seems (so far) that there is a power dynamic that stems from this age gap. I’m not going to try to defend Domestic, but the circumstances of the student-teacher “romance” were much more nuanced than the “romance” here. It made it a muddier and more morally ambiguous love, whereas older guy’s approach in Koi to Yobu is just wrong.


Domekano was amazing. Peak fiction.
Apr 4, 2021 6:34 AM

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Most of these works feel like shoujo because they are either written by girls or men inspired by such romance titles. Most of the "deep" romance that bypasses the sexualization of female characters and the most sitcomic humor is usually published for a purely female audience. Think back to the most recent "psychological" romance you've watched (for example, Horimiya) and how many of these titles gave such vibes.

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-Senku- said:
I am not a huge fan of age gap MOE, like literally he is 29-30yrs and she is 16-17.this was the reason I dropped AFTER THE RAIN,the girl was 17 and she like a 45 year old man with a child.But i think I am going to enjoy this for its comedy.


You shouldn't have dropped it. After the rain is a fantastic anime/story and while it's true that she has a crush on him, it's not really a romance at all.



They never had a father-daughter relationship. To say that is to devalue Akira's romantic feelings. The fact that this, for objective reasons, did not reach a full-fledged relationship does not yet make her feelings illusory.
Apr 4, 2021 9:38 PM

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GoroTS said:
Also feels very rape-y. Older guy continually forcing his affections onto emotionally impressionable high school girl, despite her explicitly mentioning several times that it makes her uncomfortable.
Bet you're leftist. Go post that on Twitter, pal.
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Apr 5, 2021 2:12 AM

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i had the same feeling but so far it’s great
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Apr 5, 2021 5:06 AM

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But it is shoujo... Or at least Josei
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Apr 5, 2021 9:13 AM
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ninka22 said:
were you reacting same way when Domestic Girlfriend was airing. Where the teen guy was having sexual relationship with his teacher and sister.
there are many anime like that and I'm sure many of you enjoyed mangas and animes where teen boy has relationship with older woman and teachers.
hypocrisy of some people is funny.
that's why I dropped domestic girlfriend like I said age gap is not my type,and I know from where you are coming.but to be honest I am liking this for its comedy so I think I am gonna continue it.
Apr 5, 2021 9:26 AM
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Pure_Nihilism said:
GoroTS said:
Also feels very rapey. Older guy continually forcing his affections onto emotionally impressionable high school girl, despite her explicitly mentioning several times that it makes her uncomfortable.
Bet you're leftist. Go post that on Twitter, pal.

Nice straw man. I like how we can't agree that creepy adult forcing himself on explicitly uncomfortable child is bad. Should expect nothing less from an anime forum.
Apr 5, 2021 9:51 AM

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Pure_Nihilism said:
GoroTS said:
Also feels very rape-y. Older guy continually forcing his affections onto emotionally impressionable high school girl, despite her explicitly mentioning several times that it makes her uncomfortable.
Bet you're leftist. Go post that on Twitter, pal.


Yeah leftists are very much against rape, grooming and kiddy diddling, like Cosby, Spacey, Weinstein, Polanski, Cardi B and Netflix. Clearly this makes them a leftist. LOL, your parents let you use the internet? Tell them they shouldn't.

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_alicia-chan_ said:
ninka22 said:
were you reacting same way when Domestic Girlfriend was airing. Where the teen guy was having sexual relationship with his teacher and sister.
there are many anime like that and I'm sure many of you enjoyed mangas and animes where teen boy has relationship with older woman and teachers.
hypocrisy of some people is funny.

I agree. If something like this makes you uncomfortable, just don't watch it. To me, this is just a FICTIONAL romcom.


100% I’m with you. If this makes them uncomfortable just don’t watch! Instead of judging watch something else. I’m also enjoying this fictional anime romcom.
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Apr 6, 2021 12:34 AM
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Don't know why people are comparing this to AFTER THE RAIN lol. This is a comedy with a 10yr age gap vs a 28yr gap Seinen romance. Not sure why 10 years is considered so extreme... it's the limits for sure but I wouldn't even consider it controversial.

There is nothing rapey about this...in fact the humour is based more on a Madonna-whore complex, than anything else. If you don't find it funny, then fair enough as comedy is subjective- but for all the other comments, you need to grow up.

THANK YOU! This is exactly my opinion and I couldn't have worded it better. Like, we're talking about a romcom. Why do people have to take everything so seriously?
Also, Ryo has only made romantic advances so far, not sexual, so I don't get why people call it "rapey"
Apr 6, 2021 4:16 PM
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the only unshoujo aspect in this series is the gyaru.
Apr 10, 2021 10:28 AM

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sinjurai said:
the only unshoujo aspect in this series is the gyaru.

Wrong, shitload of shoujo/josei manga are about gyarus. Ever heard about Peach Girl? https://myanimelist.net/anime/325/Peach_Girl
Apr 13, 2021 8:37 AM

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Sokah said:
Pure_Nihilism said:
Bet you're leftist. Go post that on Twitter, pal.


Yeah leftists are very much against rape, grooming and kiddy diddling, like Cosby, Spacey, Weinstein, Polanski, Cardi B and Netflix. Clearly this makes them a leftist. LOL, your parents let you use the internet? Tell them they shouldn't.

Kek, my parents? I live alone, unlike you. He's overreacting, it's just an animated show. Do you think anime is real? Lmao leftists and commies are p*dos and hypocrisy it's normal to them.
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Apr 13, 2021 8:41 AM

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GoroTS said:
Pure_Nihilism said:
Bet you're leftist. Go post that on Twitter, pal.

Nice straw man. I like how we can't agree that creepy adult forcing himself on explicitly uncomfortable child is bad. Should expect nothing less from an anime forum.
>less from an anime forum
Thanks, you just corroborated my point. Go back to Twitter. #CancelKoiToYobu
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Apr 13, 2021 8:43 AM
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-Senku- said:
I am not a huge fan of age gap MOE, like literally he is 29-30yrs and she is 16-17.this was the reason I dropped AFTER THE RAIN,the girl was 17 and she like a 45 year old man with a child.But i think I am going to enjoy this for its comedy.
in after the rain the man doesn't reciprocate the girl's feelings iirc
Apr 13, 2021 8:55 AM
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Pure_Nihilism said:
Sokah said:


Yeah leftists are very much against rape, grooming and kiddy diddling, like Cosby, Spacey, Weinstein, Polanski, Cardi B and Netflix. Clearly this makes them a leftist. LOL, your parents let you use the internet? Tell them they shouldn't.

Kek, my parents? I live alone, unlike you. He's overreacting, it's just an animated show. Do you think anime is real? Lmao leftists and commies are p*dos and hypocrisy it's normal to them.

>criticism bad seethe seethe
>pedoshit good
>everyone is a pedo and snowflake except for me
>something about twitter
have to assume you're just shitposting. i refuse to believe anyone has this much lack of self awareness.
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GoroTS said:
Pure_Nihilism said:
Kek, my parents? I live alone, unlike you. He's overreacting, it's just an animated show. Do you think anime is real? Lmao leftists and commies are p*dos and hypocrisy it's normal to them.

>criticism bad seethe seethe
>pedoshit good
>everyone is a pedo and snowflake except for me
>something about twitter
have to assume you're just shitposting. i refuse to believe anyone has this much lack of self awareness.
It's just anime, not a dick, you don't need to take it so serious.
>criticism
>cancel this i don't like it
Good joke though.
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Apr 13, 2021 9:08 AM
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Pure_Nihilism said:
GoroTS said:

>criticism bad seethe seethe
>pedoshit good
>everyone is a pedo and snowflake except for me
>something about twitter
have to assume you're just shitposting. i refuse to believe anyone has this much lack of self awareness.
It's just anime, not a dick, you don't need to take it so serious.
>criticism
>cancel this i don't like it
Good joke though.

whether the material is bad and thus should be criticized and whether it should exist are entirely separate questions. calling bad thing bad is not the same as denying bad thing’s right to exist or be consumed.
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I can't actually figure out who it's for; it started as a pixv manga so...yeah, might be josei but I don't know...


asapabri said:
Male characters in Shojo are hella rapey


Only in crappy shoujo. Not actually good ones.



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