What attracts you the most?
| Well, I don't have many LGBT+ friends, I do watch some videos about but isn't the same thing. I'm bi/pansexual, so I've multiple yet specific preferences (I'll say below, so do it you too). Here you can talk about what appeals to you in your possibly partners/beloved ones, without problems, shamelessly, since this is not Facebook or something like that. Ready, edited/removed. |
FrezlajSep 27, 2015 6:01 PM
Frezlaj said: men, women and trans... Trans: I do prefer shemale/ladyboys, cute tits and big dick. Ok so. First of all. Trans is an adjective, not a noun. Someone isn't "a trans", they are "trans" or "a trans person". The same way someone is not "a happy", they are "happy" or "a happy person". Second, trans is not a mutually exclusive category with man or woman. There are trans women and trans men. There are trans people who are "nonbinary", which means they don't fully identify as either men or women, but there are also trans people who identify fully as men or women. Third, "shemale" and to a lesser, more culturally complicated extent, "ladyboy" are considered VERY hurtful and offensive terms. "Shemale" especially is absolutely considered a slur. It's not an okay thing to say. And your comment in white text is makes it seem like you have very fetishistic ideas about trans women. So. What the fuck, really. (edited for minor typos) |
| ^ Agreed. This is so not appropriate for a safe space. |
| "Listen up, I don’t care what you punks do around the universe. But with this, my sword … anywhere it can reach, is part of my country! Asses who blunder in and violate my things … whether it be a Shogun, whether it be space pirates, whether it be a meteorite, I’ll destroy them!" - Sakata Gintoki (Gintama) |
| I see, so that's true, there are more prejudices against bi/pan in the LGT community than outside. I was just trying to be myself here, this isn't the good manners topic, romantic pureness or something. Seriously I'm sick of this bitching, at least create a proper “pronoun” or denomination, you simply complain about everything instead of offering a suitable solution, only saying what is “wrong” without saying what is the right won't change anything... |
Frezlaj said: I see, so that's true, there are more prejudices against bi/pan in the LGT community than outside. I was just trying to be myself here, this isn't the good manners topic, romantic pureness or something. Seriously I'm sick of this bitching, at least create a proper “pronoun” or denomination, you simply complain about everything instead of offering a suitable solution, only saying what is “wrong” without saying what is the right won't change anything... You're being called ou for being transphobic and using slurs and your reaction to being told this is acting like you're the victim, rather than fix it and apologize!? Trans people (binary and non-binary) continue to be attacked in som many places and you had to go and ruin a safe space, even though you yourself identify as trans? Ignorance I get, but after being told and made aware you just decide to play the "predjudice towards bi/pan people" card when nothing was said against bi or pan people? That's not only disgusting but extremely harmful and not appropriate for this spot at all. Please concider editing and/or deleting your comments. |
| You all get offended by everything, this post was going to be about talking "what attracts you", as the title says, then I use the only words I know and suddenly everything is wrong and harmful? So I won't refer to trans people anymore, since I don't know how to do it. |
Frezlaj said: You all get offended by everything, this post was going to be about talking "what attracts you", as the title says, then I use the only words I know and suddenly everything is wrong and harmful? So I won't refer to trans people anymore, since I don't know how to do it. You just did it fine. "Trans people". That's it. That's fine. And... that's what I was asking for. That's the suitable solution I was offering. I did say, "they are 'trans' or 'a trans person' and "there are trans women and trans men." That was the solution I offered. The solution is to use those words. That's the type of terminology that's currently considered polite - using the word trans as a descriptor for a person who is transgender, whether they are a man (a trans man) or a woman (a trans woman) or a nonbinary person (a trans nonbinary person). It's not that difficult. If anyone else has anything to say about their preferred terminology, I invite them to weigh in. I'm attracted to all kinds of people of all kinds of genders. I identify as bi, I don't have a problem with bi/pan people. I have a problem with people using rude terminology to refer to trans people. Asking you not to say hurtful stuff has nothing to do with your sexuality. edited to add: it's not like I'm saying you can't be attracted to trans women or express that attraction, but it's makes the LGB community feel pretty unsafe for trans people when LGB people talk like they don't consider trans people to be the genders they identify as, and consider them sexual objects based on their stereotyped biological traits! |
satanminajSep 28, 2015 12:32 PM
| Okay, I'm sorry. |
| Well... thanks. I appreciate the apology. If you have any questions, you can ask me here or through private messaging. |
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