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You probably want to know a little more about me since you click on my Profile, because what other excuse do you have. Well I'm 19 and a sophomore in college getting my bachelor's degree in Business Administration. I enjoy my spending my free time on video games, anime and reading books, a more avid game player and book reader than I am with anime. I enjoyed talking to new people, but is a little shy when it comes to striking up a conversation.
I will update my list slowly. it just so tedious adding in every anime and manga I watch.
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Well the good thing is you are still quite young at 20, but I hope you have better luck in the future with dating opportunities. I myself am 22, I only went on one date in my entire undergraduate college career (the result of an online dating site matchup at that, not through the university), and it went very badly haha. I haven't had any luck with that kind of stuff since high school.
Honestly Ziggy, I know you are not the only girl that is paranoid or at least somewhat scared or reserved from asking a guy out on a date directly.
With my last girlfriend (in 12th grade), she told her friend ,who I was good friends with, to tell me that she liked me so I could then formally ask her out myself lol. I noticed this same trend of "roundabout you tell him that I like him" with other friends in HS. My only other girlfriend in HS actually told one of my friends that she would go out with me when my friend jokingly asked her if she would say yes If I asked her out on a date ( we were just talking at lunch), and I acted on that.
Edit: Well, I guess in an ideal world, no one would be scared of rejection. Then lots of lonely people would be dating simply because they played the numbers game and they eventually ran across someone that liked them enough.
I would say that was one of my mistakes I made while I was a college student, being too scared of rejection for dating. Yeah, you'll suffer some embarassment and that person will probably talk about it with other people, but what can you really do about that?
It does get a little tricky though if you are asking a close friend out, or if that person you ask out is part of a close knit group of friends that includes you..Although that situation isn't always for the worst (asking other person out and being friends with them later). I was pretty good friends with 2 girls in high school who rejected me, mostly because we had been decent friends way before I asked them out. Sorry for ranting on your profile page, you just brought up an interesting conversation point!