(Hey there, super sorry for the late reply. I had a heavy school project for the last two weeks or so ^^')
Back to the topic....it seems the misunderstanding went way overboard, especially when you made the suggestion for them to cut ties. Both he and his friends probably assumed you had other plans to take him back. Indeed, cheaters shouldn't be given second chances, unless otherwise. He definitely seems to have felt bad for what happened, in that regard forgiveness may be an option. Threatening someone like that is totally toxic, just talking it out should be enough for the parties involved. I see, so most probably the relationship was already on the rocks, so by staying with you he was able to temporarily escape a toxic environment, which would, as a result affect him negatively. True, in such scenarios, it's better to avoid such a relationship. Even with all cards on the table, you may never know the joker being hidden up the sleeve.
I see, that's great to hear, if you're comfortable then alls well it seems.
Indeed, your treatment is unfair since you had no knowledge on what was happening. I see, most probably their unwarranted hatred will die down soon enough, so they don't resort to such shitty things. Indeed, it would have been much better for everyone.
Well, the track wasn't that expertly laid out to begin with anyway xD
Happy Belated Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A horror themed cake does seem appropriate for the spooky season.
Indeed it is. I see, so it was a case of misunderstandings. To you, it seemed that you were trying to help him, but to the other individual, it seemed that you were trying to harm their relationship, which was definitely not your intention. To me, it seems they took the situation further that it needed to go without proper information, blaming you for something you never wanted to do. Most probably your behavo=iour towards him triggered the rest, so you became an easy target when shit got serious. I believe, when people have conflict, they should talk privately and avoid publicly arguing with each, but in this situation, all parties seem to be on a different wavelength.
I see, if it isn't too sensitive for a stranger, then it's all good. No, that may not be necessary, I can tell the topic is quite sensitive for you, so I wouldn't want to pry too much. I can both sympathise and empathize with your situation given the information. Indeed, they may be stalking you since they seem so determined to start something. They might as well have cut ties or avoided you, but not start harassing, gossiping and spreading false info about you, that's pretty childish in fact!!! That sounds great, remember to hang in there!!!
You're welcome. Indeed, I hope so too, we can keep up the pace as much as possible.
Ahh, I see....no worries then, it pretty close anyways ^^
That's great to hear. Ahh, I think I understand now. Sometimes a gut feeling is the best to go with, but we are all human after all. Perhaps the guy had malicious intent after he discovered your affection towards him. Getting a bad general feeling about something or rather someone is most of the time overshadowed by such thoughts. A similar thing did happen to me a few years ago, but not to your extent though. After the relationship took a turn for the worst, I seriously despised myself for not noticing the red flags....for not following my gut, it took me almost two years to bounce back to a better place.
But enough about me, it seems like both the guys were in on it, so it's no surprise really. I wouldn't want to pry too much because it seems to be a super sensitive topic. What I just can't understand is why some people always feels the need to be assholes and do the most despicable shit. But, we are all human after all, keeping ones intentions in check is always difficult...even for me. I just hope you're doing much better now ^^
I definitely didn't mean I wouldn't take any offence, I just meant it had to be on serious levels for me to remotely bother with it, but people tend to approach different situations differently after all. No worries, you seem like one of the few chilled people on this website.
Ohh that's great to hear, I'll definitely post something for you, although my gold fish memory isn't the best, a reminder may be in order ¯\_〳 •̀ o •́ 〵_/¯
I see, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you're doing alright at the moment, times are tough after all, no one would or rather should blame you. Well, it's those issues that are normally the hardest to overcome, being strong to embrace such negative factors in life might seem impossible, but with time things might get better. I do hope, despite whatever happened, you're still hanging in there (◍•ᴗ•◍)
I'll try my best to remain as chill as possible, I rarely do get defensive or offensive over the internet, cause after all it's the internet.
I mean, if you're up for one then sure. Although my replies may not be the quickest, I'll try my utmost best and go plus ultra!!!
I'm so sorry to hear about your brother, I wish you and your family the best.
Oh, who was that friend?
I see, that's good to hear. These readings really mean a lot to you, yes. How are you planning to make them more "woke"?
Wow, I've....never heard that.....how did you even discover such a fetish? And would you not be uncomfortable having to kill the person to do that?
I see, I see.
You were suffering? Jeez, I didn't know that.... we can talk if that helps. You don't need to be sorry, though.
I didn't send you a friend request, but you can send me one if you like, I suppose.
I see, how are you now then?
In what way, are you more independent? Oh, did you do readings for friends or just anyone? That fetish was...? I shouldn't, but you've kidnapped my curiosity. Is this artist on MAL, who might they be? Stagnant? What was missing then?
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Back to the topic....it seems the misunderstanding went way overboard, especially when you made the suggestion for them to cut ties. Both he and his friends probably assumed you had other plans to take him back. Indeed, cheaters shouldn't be given second chances, unless otherwise. He definitely seems to have felt bad for what happened, in that regard forgiveness may be an option. Threatening someone like that is totally toxic, just talking it out should be enough for the parties involved. I see, so most probably the relationship was already on the rocks, so by staying with you he was able to temporarily escape a toxic environment, which would, as a result affect him negatively. True, in such scenarios, it's better to avoid such a relationship. Even with all cards on the table, you may never know the joker being hidden up the sleeve.
I see, that's great to hear, if you're comfortable then alls well it seems.
Indeed, your treatment is unfair since you had no knowledge on what was happening. I see, most probably their unwarranted hatred will die down soon enough, so they don't resort to such shitty things. Indeed, it would have been much better for everyone.
Well, the track wasn't that expertly laid out to begin with anyway xD
Happy Belated Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A horror themed cake does seem appropriate for the spooky season.
I see, if it isn't too sensitive for a stranger, then it's all good. No, that may not be necessary, I can tell the topic is quite sensitive for you, so I wouldn't want to pry too much. I can both sympathise and empathize with your situation given the information. Indeed, they may be stalking you since they seem so determined to start something. They might as well have cut ties or avoided you, but not start harassing, gossiping and spreading false info about you, that's pretty childish in fact!!! That sounds great, remember to hang in there!!!
You're welcome. Indeed, I hope so too, we can keep up the pace as much as possible.
Ahh, I see....no worries then, it pretty close anyways ^^
But enough about me, it seems like both the guys were in on it, so it's no surprise really. I wouldn't want to pry too much because it seems to be a super sensitive topic. What I just can't understand is why some people always feels the need to be assholes and do the most despicable shit. But, we are all human after all, keeping ones intentions in check is always difficult...even for me. I just hope you're doing much better now ^^
I definitely didn't mean I wouldn't take any offence, I just meant it had to be on serious levels for me to remotely bother with it, but people tend to approach different situations differently after all. No worries, you seem like one of the few chilled people on this website.
Ohh that's great to hear, I'll definitely post something for you, although my gold fish memory isn't the best, a reminder may be in order ¯\_〳 •̀ o •́ 〵_/¯
I'll try my best to remain as chill as possible, I rarely do get defensive or offensive over the internet, cause after all it's the internet.
I mean, if you're up for one then sure. Although my replies may not be the quickest, I'll try my utmost best and go plus ultra!!!
But naturally I do really like to be chill and laid back ^^'
I'm so sorry to hear about your brother, I wish you and your family the best.
Oh, who was that friend?
I see, that's good to hear. These readings really mean a lot to you, yes. How are you planning to make them more "woke"?
Wow, I've....never heard that.....how did you even discover such a fetish? And would you not be uncomfortable having to kill the person to do that?
I see, I see.
I didn't send you a friend request, but you can send me one if you like, I suppose.
I see, how are you now then?
In what way, are you more independent? Oh, did you do readings for friends or just anyone? That fetish was...? I shouldn't, but you've kidnapped my curiosity. Is this artist on MAL, who might they be? Stagnant? What was missing then?
this must be disposed of
How're things, anyway?
Have a good one~
sweet of you