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On Christmas Eve, we (my husband and I) will be going to my grandfather. All my families will be there. I have a very huge family so it going to be chaotic with everyone getting together.

Any plan for the New Year?
We usually travel for the New Year, like last year we went to New York, but since I'm close to my due date we're going to just go out to a nice restaurant.

Sounds fun! Did you also take photos with a bunch of Undertakers? :D

You don't have to apologize, it's not like I'm super punctual either. I think it's just so nice when someone finds the time to message someone they know just from the internet. So it's completely alright if it takes a while. ^^

Oh, I hope you’re alright. I totally get how you feel about going to the doctor, I always freak out thinking of the worst-case scenarios xD But it’s definitely better to address the problem rather than let it get worse. Make sure to look after yourself! ♥
I hope you enjoyed Thanksgiving. I find these types of social gatherings rather dreadful. xD

That sounds like a difficult goal to achieve. =D I've been wondering why you've been watching those short anime (and rating nearly all of them poorly :DD). I'm not a big fan of short anime because it's hard for me to say goodbye to the characters I get attached to. How's your plan going? Since it's already December... =D

I haven’t heard about this game. But I don't think it would be a game for me, it seems too intense. :D I'm more into "cozy" games like Ori in the Blind Forest and Life is Strange.

Hi! Nice to meet you too :) Thankyou for accepting!!
I hope you're having a lovely night yourself <3

We had a Halloween dinner party/gathering. We invited a couple of friends and stuff and watch movies and play games. I went as Taylor Swift and my husband went as Travis Kelce. I'm a Swiftie, and he is a chief fan, so it is a perfect match.

It is nice to meet you too :)
How are you doing? Watching anything good lately?

I feel there is a generation who grew up with the worst examples of married life in real life and fiction; like marrying for a green card, for money, and constant cheating, hence, there are some people who may be skeptical. With that being said, the ones who just say it is an old-fashioned institution and nobody should do it are just jealous of the ones who have the chance. Marriage is an important commitment and should be celebrated according to it, and whoever doesn't want to get married shouldn´t act salty towards the ones who want it; just the people who have kids don´t have to force the ones who don´t have them.

Yeah, it sounds sad, but a lot of people think their relationships have an expiration date. Like, who goes into a relationship instantly thinking they will get cheated on? If your partner gives you those vibes, the relationship is obviously meant to end. It is normal to feel scared of getting abandoned or cheated on, especially if you have abandonment issues or were cheated on in the past, but you shouldn´t trauma dump on the ones who are happy in their relationships. The amount of couples I have read on Reddit that fell apart because relatives planted that seed of worry.

It is hard to trust, and that is a fact, but sometimes you just need to close your eyes and take that jump. At the end of the day, it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

I love staying at home, so I love dark and stormy as long as the power doesn´t go down hahaha. There was a storm in the middle of the year that left all of my regions with power shortages for days, for some people even weeks. That wasn´t a nice experience, to be honest. Still, I prefer rain and cold over hot and sunny.
You were so lucky, weather can be so treacherous in the worst moments sometimes. I am glad your day was alongside the weather you enjoyed.

She sounds like a professional yet approachable person; it sounds like you were one of the lucky ones. May I ask, what happened during those 10 minutes? Did she say something? You said your vows? It's been a while since I went to a wedding, so I don´t know much about it, and I have never attended one in the courtroom.

The amount of times people are nearly forced by their families to forgive a relative who wronged them; in which world it is ok for you to forgive a cousin or sibling who slept with your fiance, spouse, or significant other just to keep the peace on the family? Or to kick your child out when they turn 18? I read some of this with my mom who is a bit old-fashioned, and even she thinks those people are moronics, especially the ones who exclude relatives who are LGBT because in-laws are homophobic.
I am glad to hear you are not letting anyone belittle your plans; go as wild as you want to be.

Hahaha, don´t worry, it is the nice type of jealousy; the type that made me want to work as hard to save money to buy one that fulfills my expectations, especially now that Amazon books are reaching my country hahaha.
I have seen some that do catch my attention, but I am still waiting for "THE" one to appear, so I completely understand what you are saying.
So far I am getting out of space for my book collection and game collection; I have a list of books and games I want to buy, especially vintage DS ones which are a bit pricey, but I have had luck in finding them. Of course, send me pictures of them; I would love to see them. It may give me some ideas for the future.

That is a great step, that you opened up with your husband; I am glad to hear nightmares have been so common after you let it out. I went to therapy in college because it was free for students, and by God, I love it more than anything; therapy is the best, it can be so helpful, and you can relieve a lot of stress from pent-up stress and things you can't normally talk about. Still, you need to find one that suits you, and maybe that will take a while.
With time the strength of it may reduce, but that is only something that time can heal. I don´t know what happened, but if you decided to defend yourself you have nothing to feel embarrassed about.

Believe me, I know that feeling of wanting to forget people, and that the memories of them don´t feel as heavy as they used to. It takes time, but we are going there.

Hahaha, indeed, they know how to grill; I mean, I think we all have grilled at some point. I must say one of the most prominent traditions in my family is playing cards, we all know how to play cards since my grandma enjoyed and played with most of us. Every time my family gathers a card game starts hahaha.

Really? Is that from a health issue? You cannot eat any fruit without the texture making you physically ill? That sounds horrible, I have been eating fruit ever since I was a kid, and I am waiting for the season when Watermelon and Cherries appear. Isn´t there something you can do to eat fruit? Like a treatment or a pill?
I am not the biggest fan of dried fruits, but sometimes I like them, especially dried bananas hahaha.
Chocolate ganache is the best, I will definitely learn how to prepare it in what is left of 2024. I am looking for recipes for New Year, so maybe I will learn how to prepare it to make a pool of chocolate ganache hahaha.
Thanks a lot for the encouraging words.

I hope so too; cheesecake is not very common where I live, so maybe I will try some one day to see what it tastes like.

Thanks a lot!
You are welcome; I am happy to hear it was a lovely time, and I am eager to hear how your upcoming celebration will go as well :)

Yeah, Break was one of the coolest characters in PH! Though it's hard to choose with this manga, all the characters were very likeable. ^w^ I did some drawings too; there’s just something unique and beautiful about Mochizuki’s art style. ^^

Oh, I understand, there are a lot of anime living on my stalled list too. xD But, if you have the time, definitely continue watching Naruto, it’s really worth it. ^^

Hehe, indeed, money is a constant problem! xD 
Have you ever entered a cosplay contest or did you cosplay just for fun? :o

How are you doing otherwise? Is there anything else you've been interested in recently? =)

Hello :3
It's great to meet you too! thank you for accepting my friend request.

Hello :)
It's nice to meet you too, and thanks for accepting. Have a great day!

I'm stuff watching a bunch of Halloween movies that it not too spooky. I can't deal with anything that is nightmare inducing. I have also been trying out some new Fall recipe. I'm not the biggest fan of pumpkin spice or pumpkin flavor stuff, but I do love to make them. I'm more of an apple cinnamon type of gal.

No worries about delays, I'm typically really bad with messages and chats anyway. I never expect prompt responses. Plus, it looks like you get a lot of walls of text. Seems overwhelming. I don't even expect a responses from folks, so seriously, no worries.

Yes, please definitely see a doctor. Many of my family and friends who fall under a demographic which has had a pretty bad history with medical malpractice are also extremely scared of going to the hospital, so I understand. Same as I tell them though, please just be careful if it's something that seems like it might be severe like this (like heart-related symptoms)... If you have to, have some buddies who are down to help support/comfort you physically or on the phone for a hospital visit if you have to. I know it's not that easy, though.
Glad you feel okay-ish now though and that your sleep is better! Hopefully the visit to the doctor goes well!

And dang, sounds like a really darn good dentist then. I mean especially if you're going out of your way to say it!

You are welcome C:

I feel people are trying to sound edgy and deconstructed by saying they are against marriage; if it is something you are forced to do, like an arranged marriage, then I understand if you are against it, but if you are against just because then you are just making a fool out of yourself
Whoever wants to get married, is allowed to do it.

How convenient, overcast days with a bit of warmth are so nice. It seemed the weather was on your side that day.
Something similar happened to me the other day; I went out to work during a tricky day when it seemed it was about to either rain or get sunny. I was with some important stuff that would have been ruined by getting wet, so I picked the first bus I found to my house; right after I entered it a downpour fell immediately, and stopped right when I went out of it. I never felt so blessed before hahaha.
You were married by the top brass? That justifies showing off, I cannot begin to think how special you must have felt. Was she nice?
I hope you can fulfill your expectations and have a lovely event with the people you love, and while I don´t want to diminish any plans you may have in store, go thinking about having a great time; I am not trying to intrude, but I have read way too many Reddit AITA posts in the past.

I am not going to lie, I am very jealous of you as of now hahaha; I will start saving for a bookshelf, I don´t care anymore if I have space left or not hahaha.
I hate that getting things we love is a synonym for less space. Is one of the shelves filled already?
Thanks a lot, that is a small wish I have in store to fulfill one day; I am still thinking about which kind I want, that is broader or one that is larger.

Don´t get it wrong, but have you discussed it with someone? Maybe a therapist can help you as well as give you something that relaxes your mind. Don´t worry, it is hard to forget the people who traumatized you at some point, so take it one day at a time.

Grilling is the best, I usually hang out with my paternal relatives, and my mom always jokes that it would not be a celebration with them if there isn´t something on the grill hahaha. Indeed, the chicken was so good and juicy as well.
I hope you can eat some grilled meat soon :)

I honestly think Banana is the fruit with the strongest flavor, and maybe that is why a Banana cake is so good hahaha. Chocolate ganache is always something glorious and to be thankful for; I think I will try and learn an easy recipe to prepare it now that New Year is coming.
I don´t think I have ever tried a cream cheese frosting; I love cream cheese, so I will see if I can find a store that prepares them. I am not going to lie, I never heard of Italian cream cake before, but after watching so many images, it gives me so many good vibes; like, it looks so right.

Thanks a lot, it was truly a day that made me feel the happiest in quite some time.
I am also happy you have a great time at your bridal shower and during your wedding as well C:

Oh, it's totally okay if you're not sure if you like them. You can enjoy some of their songs even if you don't know the band members or anything. The music is what really matters. ^^
LOL, ok. =D Speaking of the individual members‘ releases, my favorite is Changbin's song Streetlight. ♥ Have you heard that one?

Wow, that sounds like so much work. xD
Same same! PH was one of my first manga, and it's still my most favorite one to this day. I absolutely love everything about it, the plot, characters, art style... ^^ I've only checked out a few chapters of Vanitas so far, but they were really great! ^^

Oh, I find Aizawa’s personality very likeable. ^^ He’s actually my second favorite BNHA character. He's like a cooler and funnier version of Kakashi from Naruto lol.
If I’m not mistaken, he puts on those glasses so his enemies can’t figure out which quirk he’s about to erase, right? But honestly, those glasses look super weird. xD

I feel you~ I looked up some Medicine Seller cosplay pics, and they look awesome! ^^

What are your plan for Halloween?