soulresinVEVO said:Sorta but not necessarily. I’m skinny, not underweight type skinny but like a good build, and considerably attractive, and I know plenty of other guys who also fit my description who you’d think have an easy time getting girls but it’s simply just not that easy.
First off, and they always portray this unrealistically, girls won’t just come up to you and start talking like you’re their best friend or ask to marry you or fawn over you like that. girls and guys have different reactions with attraction. Guys typically just start based on looks like “oh damn she a baddie” but girls only react like that if it’s literally a male supermodel/actor. Girls (that aren’t like playboys) typically start attraction based on personality usually(or being manipulated by guys and vice verse). It’ll start as being friends with the girl, and then the more you get know each other the closer the closer you get as friends and eventually become best friends and then if you both realize you also find them attractive and potentially see a future for both of you then you talk about going out. It’s a rough dating pool these days. If you try to go out with girls they will likely just use you because they feel nothing. There’s no prior bond. And you also have no idea if there will be any mutual connection. So it’s also a waste of time.
As for my second point. I have seen sooo many people that look like mc, when he was fat, in real life that have girlfriends. Obviously the majority of them are self-destructive incels who don’t want to put in the work to better themselves. But a small few of them are somehow still confident despite letting themselves go physically and likely not very hygienic either. And somehow this confidence can out shine a normal, fit and healthy, clean, handsome guy with a great personality just because they have a hard time talking with new people, especially girls. So the overweight person ends up with a hot chick.