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Apr 16, 2022 2:08 PM

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NoviSun said:
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You know, as a person who know a lot about psychology (it's my passion) I am self aware enough, unfortunately (or fortunately lol) to be resistant for gaslighting/turn something on its head/distorting the facts aka twist everything round comments like yours. So keep it going if you enjoy it. I rly couldn't care less about your words towards me and your poor attempt to troll me/trying to tell me that somehow you know better who I am than me. And no, I'm not talking about your other words, and statements, because they are harmful for others, that's why I'm still responding right now. Anyway, the fact is that this character is a pedophile, and even Japanese law will told you this. So believe what you want - believe the law, or believe your bubble. If you don't want to believe what I am saying to you, and It's more convenient and safe in your head to believe what you are saying, then live in your own bubble, no one will prohibits you this lol. But remember, that even if it's "just an internet" spreading your own thoughts that are not overlapping with fact and reality may hurt someone, and this "someone" can be a child. But still, maybe I am talking to someone who is a teen, or young adult? I don't know. Because - excuse me for being harsh - you literally sound like a confused kiddo, not an adult person. Look, I wasn't trying to attack you, I was trying to tell you that you are wrong, and your words may harm someone. Someone can literally be a kid, read your statements, believe in it and live with harmful wrong conviction that this character's actions are normal. Do you rly think it is normal to fall in love while being a teen/young adult or adult for 8 year old child? Because for me, for society (and for this character, she literally told this in one episode) it's not normal. Falling in love with 8yo child if you are not around the same age is not normal. I wouldn't even call this "falling in love", because from psychological perspective, people at this age don't know what love is, they literally are at the beginning of journey called "learning about love". And it is a long journey. Anyway, me saying that you can get help wasn't suppose to be a rude comment, or attack, it suppose to be "you can try help for yourself and stop harming others". Because even your words on the internet may have a big impact at someones else life/mental health. And as you know, even if something is/should be pegi 18, it doesn't mean that kids are protected and will not see things. So someone very young could seen anime, and your comments. Idk dude, i literally can't explain better what I tried to tell you. So i guess it's my last comment, do whatever you want, like I said.
Why are you jumping on my case? I was talking to some other weirdo not you.


Because of your statement that the main char is not pedo lol
Apr 16, 2022 4:18 PM

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Evil_Morty said:
NoviSun said:
Why are you jumping on my case? I was talking to some other weirdo not you.


Because of your statement that the main char is not pedo lol
I said that, mostly because she isn’t. Not every relationship is lewd and disgusting.
Apr 16, 2022 6:05 PM

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NoviSun said:
Evil_Morty said:


Because of your statement that the main char is not pedo lol
I said that, mostly because she isn’t. Not every relationship is lewd and disgusting.


Well, yea, she can be even asexual, as long as she is in love with a person who is 8 years old max it's not normal and illegal. The main character was never taught healthy patterns of love or relationships. That's why shes in love with a child and capable to kill other person. She don't even know healthy friendship, or anything like that and she lack of emotional intelligence (especially empathy). That's why someone called it pedophilic disorder and put it to DSM-5 ... If you want me to be more specific, it's called Paraphilia, you can read about it. And if you want me to be more more specific it's called ... and yea. I can't tell you how, because - I didn't find this term yet, or no one find that term yet because medicine in this topic is not developed ... I would call it an asexual pedophile, because I simply don ' t know how to call it. Technically paraphilia in DSM is described as sexual arousal, but we have still a lot of new studies about sexuality, so it will be a long time for DSM to absorb terms such as asexuality and combine it with paraphiliac disorders ...

From this point I rly can't be more specific XD
For example this blonde guy (i don't remember his name Ta-something xd) is a gr8 example of a person who gets pedophilic disorder from trauma, you can even watch him changing. For me his thoughts are also P-OCD. Believe or not, but a lot of Pedophiles had traumatic situation like this character in the past. No one is born as a pedophile ... bad parenting and socialization patterns shapes a person with a disturbed personality and behaviors, pedophilia is just one of a 834783748 / infinite (who knows rly, science about human mind / personality and shit is still young and we still don't know alot).

Also sorry if my comments earlier seems rude, I'm kinda socially awkward and I don't know often how to talk with people, especially in a hard topics. My point is, that the sentence "this is not pedophile" is not enough. And as you can see from my reaction, when you don't extend your thoughts, they may lead to misinterpretation/misunderstanding, and someone (in this case me) can simply think that for you this is normal or maybe even you have paraphilia or something which may not be the case at all. My second point was, that if we like it or not, there are children/teens here, on this site, who can read that short sentence, and (wrongly) learn from it by accident that this is something normal and socially accepted, this on the other hand can lead to other things, but i rly don't want to write a psychological book here, so... XD
We can end this conversation if you want, or idk, maybe continue. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Evil_MortyApr 16, 2022 6:10 PM
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