Or, perhaps they do understand. Core otaku, the ones we imagine frequenting Akihabara but otherwise staying in their homes all day (read hikikomori), are most likely aware that socializing involves the above mentioned things, yet they may find such things to be meaningless. Fashion and looks may not be important to the otaku, so when they’re judged simply by the way they dress, it becomes a question of whether it’s their own lack of ability to socialize or a problem with the way the person judging them thinks. Chances are, it’s the latter.
Why I Would Marry a Tsundere
In fact, I touched on this idea of cognitive dissonance earlier in June, and I think it has a direct connection with how tsundere have become so popular amongst otaku. Rather than blame oneself for not being able to socialize correctly, it’s far easier to simply provide an alternative reason for why a girl would be so unfairly judgmental. This alternative reason is the tsundere.
Tsundere, in many shows, end up actually falling for the male lead because the protagonist somehow demonstrates his own worth, thereby attracting that girl to him. Likewise, otaku may begin to think that girls can be won over if they were capable of fulfilling the same requirements as the main character (of a harem anime, for instance). Basically, these girls are unreasonably hateful, but the guy can win such a girl over if he just shows her his nice side. Wishful thinking, perhaps.
Once we realize that otaku may entertain the idea that most girls are ignorant of their attractive traits, we also realize the reason why tsundere may be thought of as a prime romantic target. By projecting the tsundere as an example of real world psychology, one that acts according to how we would predict they act, the tsundere becomes a goal in the game of love for otaku. Oversimplification of people’s personality (as a tsundere) and of love (as a game with a logical structure) is projected onto reality, and the consequence of this is that we associate sexual attraction (in real life) with the abstract concept of a tsundere. Especially since this tsundere, once captured by the main character, is fully willing to develop the relationship further towards a more intimate and physical level.
The Real Conclusion
To summarize, tsundere seem sexual because we think they have a bearing on real life relationships, and that they represent a simplified version of the complexities inherent in mating rituals in society. Otaku, especially core otaku who have a difficulty with romance, may find this type of character to be far more attractive than, say, a character who is never angered and is always willing to comfort the male protagonist, because it seems so unrealistic to have a character that is always so understanding. However, there is no real thing as a tsundere, and its inherent sexuality is actually targeted towards desirable (albeit oversimplified) real women, not 2D ones.
Thus, three mechanisms converge to create the mirage of tsundere sexuality. The first is folk psychology and the logical structure of it. The second is a decision-tree method of thinking about romance. Finally, the third is a real world bit of cognitive dissonance, which finally bridges together the abstract concept of tsun and dere into reality as a personality type associated with real women.
I do think that the recent boom in the creation of tsundere characters is an extension of this process, which most likely began post 80s and during the 90s, most notably around the time of Evangelion with the appearance of Asuka Langley Soryu. Azuma’s point about otaku being conditioned to moe elements applies here, in that newer fans of anime as a medium become exposed to an already overly sexualized conception of tsundere, and thus seem to adopt the same attitude toward tsundere characters that socially awkward otaku did when first popularizing the notion of tsundere.
However, the caveat is that it is equally as likely for other idealized characters to be linked with reality, and thus certain individuals may find them more attractive than the tsundere. For example, someone who grows up knowing no motherly love may find the understanding, gentle, and soothing idealization in anime to be more attractive. When I said in part 2 that there is a bit of subjectivity associated with sexuality, I think it lies in the connection between how otaku think about a fictional character and his/her relationship with reality.
Notes:
I think some of us may be wondering why so much discussion has been about tsundere. For me, the reason is that it offers an interesting bit of insight into how otaku think. By theorizing about the origins of moe archetypes, perhaps we can discover more about the reasons why we like parts of otaku culture, instead of just knowing we like it.
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