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Aug 14, 2008 8:30 PM
#1
talk about it please!!! ^-^ i just wanna know! im not being nosey or anything! teehee! <33 |
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Aug 14, 2008 9:17 PM
#2
im single...X( sorry! |
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Aug 14, 2008 9:22 PM
#3
you'll find someone! XD XXD XDD |
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Aug 14, 2008 9:24 PM
#4
i hope so...lol. hbu? special some1 for u?? |
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Aug 15, 2008 2:10 AM
#5
Aug 15, 2008 8:03 PM
#6
"It's complicated." ^_^ Tee hee... I don't know, but it really is complicated... |
Aug 17, 2008 10:36 AM
#7
Nekkou said: i hope so...lol. hbu? special some1 for u?? MurderTheDance (tyler)..he is my life |
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Aug 17, 2008 10:37 AM
#8
Cabeloe said: single T_T AWWWWWEYYY!!!! DX im sorry! |
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Aug 17, 2008 10:37 AM
#9
rainbow_heart said: "It's complicated." ^_^ Tee hee... I don't know, but it really is complicated... do explain! XD |
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Aug 17, 2008 6:48 PM
#10
HeathaZilla said: rainbow_heart said: "It's complicated." ^_^ Tee hee... I don't know, but it really is complicated... do explain! XD I'll just copy-paste my comment to DizzySaxy here, since it's the "summary" of the explanation. (Though it's still long. Hahaha.) I have a boyfriend, and we'll be celebrating our 2nd anniversary on the 27th. However, things are complicated right now because I think (and feel) that I don't love him anymore. I got fed up of those fights, of his attitude, and just about everything about him. And then there's this one guy, this guy, let's name him "Takumi". He's the friend of my bf, however, they aren't that close anymore because of their "attitudes" so it's the same thing as "they're not friends anymore." Takumi is a playboy. We're friends. Every time my bf and I has a problem, I always call on him, and he'll make me happy with his jokes and everything. (He's a joker, a funny guy that makes me so happy every time we talk.) I broke up with my bf last August 10. However, because of many break-ups with him, (we'll break-up then after a while we'll get back together), I don't think he believes that I totally broke up with him. When I broke up with him, I called (texted) Takumi. And then there. We became close again (after a very long time of not communicating) and I think I'm falling for him. It's ok if I'll fall in love with him, but the problem is this: It seems to me that we have a relationship now (but he never courted me or what), but that relationship is sort of like a joke. If I'll seriously fall in love with him, it will be a problem if he'll just leave me after a while. (Like Takumi in the anime NANA.) Also, I don't have the guts to tell my bf (now ex-bf) about my relationship with Takumi because he knows that Takumi is just a playboy and he is just playing with me and I'm like a cheap girl that lets Takumi play with me, and I don't want to give that impression to my ex-bf. (Fine. Even though I don't want to admit it, I can say that I'm like Hachi in the anime NANA.) The problem is this. I'm not happy with my bf anymore but I don't want to let him go, so that in case Takumi leaves me, I'll still have my bf back. BUT my relationship with Takumi is getting deeper than before, and I'm confused as to what Takumi is really feeling about me. I cannot ask him, I might be left alone if we talk about serious things. I don't know if I'm really sure that I don't love my bf anymore, because I'm occupied with the happiness Takumi gives me. I don't want to let go of my bf, and all our promises and dreams together. And this is just so complicated. |
Aug 18, 2008 12:07 AM
#11
HeathaZilla said: Nekkou said: i hope so...lol. hbu? special some1 for u?? MurderTheDance (tyler)..he is my life thats soo sweet! XD ^^ |
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Aug 18, 2008 12:14 AM
#12
rainbow_heart said: HeathaZilla said: rainbow_heart said: "It's complicated." ^_^ Tee hee... I don't know, but it really is complicated... do explain! XD its sounds like you just dont want to let go of your ex. becuz he's like ur safe zone. u dont want to be alone, but ur also a bit scared to take a chance with this other guy...i think you should go for it, i mean even if it doesnt ed how you want it to, you still tried. All you can really do is fallow ur heart...sometimes ur head gets confused,...im just saying its worth a shot! also, ive been in a spot like yours be4, not exactly, but pretty close...but i hope for the best and your happinedd whatever you decide to do...sorry it came to what it did, but i think every1 kinda goes through it eventually...sry this is so long! XD I'll just copy-paste my comment to DizzySaxy here, since it's the "summary" of the explanation. (Though it's still long. Hahaha.) I have a boyfriend, and we'll be celebrating our 2nd anniversary on the 27th. However, things are complicated right now because I think (and feel) that I don't love him anymore. I got fed up of those fights, of his attitude, and just about everything about him. And then there's this one guy, this guy, let's name him "Takumi". He's the friend of my bf, however, they aren't that close anymore because of their "attitudes" so it's the same thing as "they're not friends anymore." Takumi is a playboy. We're friends. Every time my bf and I has a problem, I always call on him, and he'll make me happy with his jokes and everything. (He's a joker, a funny guy that makes me so happy every time we talk.) I broke up with my bf last August 10. However, because of many break-ups with him, (we'll break-up then after a while we'll get back together), I don't think he believes that I totally broke up with him. When I broke up with him, I called (texted) Takumi. And then there. We became close again (after a very long time of not communicating) and I think I'm falling for him. It's ok if I'll fall in love with him, but the problem is this: It seems to me that we have a relationship now (but he never courted me or what), but that relationship is sort of like a joke. If I'll seriously fall in love with him, it will be a problem if he'll just leave me after a while. (Like Takumi in the anime NANA.) Also, I don't have the guts to tell my bf (now ex-bf) about my relationship with Takumi because he knows that Takumi is just a playboy and he is just playing with me and I'm like a cheap girl that lets Takumi play with me, and I don't want to give that impression to my ex-bf. (Fine. Even though I don't want to admit it, I can say that I'm like Hachi in the anime NANA.) The problem is this. I'm not happy with my bf anymore but I don't want to let him go, so that in case Takumi leaves me, I'll still have my bf back. BUT my relationship with Takumi is getting deeper than before, and I'm confused as to what Takumi is really feeling about me. I cannot ask him, I might be left alone if we talk about serious things. I don't know if I'm really sure that I don't love my bf anymore, because I'm occupied with the happiness Takumi gives me. I don't want to let go of my bf, and all our promises and dreams together. And this is just so complicated. |
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Aug 18, 2008 9:16 AM
#13
rainbow_heart, i agree with Nekkou, there's no point holding on to something you don't truly want, the longer you keep holding on, the harder it will be in the end. even if you end up alone without either of them, at least you tried, and being alone isn't all that bad. CLICHE ALERT : it's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. lol. i can't really offer much more advice, seeing as i've never been in your situation, but having observing similar situations, i can say that being in a relationship for the sake of not being single is never a good thing. Now, onto me, here's a summary of my love life posted in another forum a couple of weeks ago. It's pretty long, so i'll spoiler it. I'm not gonna lie. I haven't been that successful with women in the past. There have been girls, but i always seem to attract the girls i don't really like, or reject ones which i later regret. Anyway, my current situation. I lived with 2 guys and a girl in a house at university last year, and will be living with them again next year. I knew these guys in my first year too, we lived on the same corridor. Now i've never really been attracted to the girl i live with, she's just a good friend. But towards the end of last term we started to get closer, and there were a few occasions when we... fooled about, or whatever the kids call it these days. Anyway, after every time we "fooled about", i REALLY regretted it, partly because i'm not THAT attracted to her, and partly because i don't want it to turn into something more because i don't feel it would last and i might hurt her... OK, so term ends, and it's summer, we go our seperate ways and i forget about it. A few weeks later we meet up again to go to a music festival (3 of us from the house). the night before she's at my house, and... it happens again. Again i don't let it go to far, and regret it. Argh, i just dunno what i feel. I'm pretty sure i DON'T want anything with her. I think i'm just frustrated and the fact that she's into me makes me go along with it because there hasn't been anyone else in a while. But there's just little moments when i do want more. God damn it! Why can't the girls i really want be the ones who want me! Also, i'm worried that sometimes i become more hostile and distant from her just because i don't want to be too nice and close because i don't want it to happen again. Hmm. Well, there's still like 9 more weeks til i have to live with them again. Maybe i'll find someone else by then, but probably not! Nothing has really happened in my love life since i wrote this, except a couple of 14 year old girls were trying to chat me up in town the other weekend, and a few more tiny insignificant things. And i'm even more certain i don't want a relationship with the girl mentioned above. Sorry for such a long post, but if you bothered to read it all, thanks. xD |
CabeloeAug 18, 2008 9:21 AM
Aug 19, 2008 4:22 AM
#14
@Cabeloe and Nekkou Thanks for that one. ^_^ @Cabeloe Yours is just a problem of controlling yourself. You should not let yourself give in to that desire if you'll regret it after a while. ^_^ |
Aug 19, 2008 7:04 AM
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Aug 28, 2008 3:24 PM
#16
rainbow_heart said: HeathaZilla said: rainbow_heart said: "It's complicated." ^_^ Tee hee... I don't know, but it really is complicated... do explain! XD I'll just copy-paste my comment to DizzySaxy here, since it's the "summary" of the explanation. (Though it's still long. Hahaha.) I have a boyfriend, and we'll be celebrating our 2nd anniversary on the 27th. However, things are complicated right now because I think (and feel) that I don't love him anymore. I got fed up of those fights, of his attitude, and just about everything about him. And then there's this one guy, this guy, let's name him "Takumi". He's the friend of my bf, however, they aren't that close anymore because of their "attitudes" so it's the same thing as "they're not friends anymore." Takumi is a playboy. We're friends. Every time my bf and I has a problem, I always call on him, and he'll make me happy with his jokes and everything. (He's a joker, a funny guy that makes me so happy every time we talk.) I broke up with my bf last August 10. However, because of many break-ups with him, (we'll break-up then after a while we'll get back together), I don't think he believes that I totally broke up with him. When I broke up with him, I called (texted) Takumi. And then there. We became close again (after a very long time of not communicating) and I think I'm falling for him. It's ok if I'll fall in love with him, but the problem is this: It seems to me that we have a relationship now (but he never courted me or what), but that relationship is sort of like a joke. If I'll seriously fall in love with him, it will be a problem if he'll just leave me after a while. (Like Takumi in the anime NANA.) Also, I don't have the guts to tell my bf (now ex-bf) about my relationship with Takumi because he knows that Takumi is just a playboy and he is just playing with me and I'm like a cheap girl that lets Takumi play with me, and I don't want to give that impression to my ex-bf. (Fine. Even though I don't want to admit it, I can say that I'm like Hachi in the anime NANA.) The problem is this. I'm not happy with my bf anymore but I don't want to let him go, so that in case Takumi leaves me, I'll still have my bf back. BUT my relationship with Takumi is getting deeper than before, and I'm confused as to what Takumi is really feeling about me. I cannot ask him, I might be left alone if we talk about serious things. I don't know if I'm really sure that I don't love my bf anymore, because I'm occupied with the happiness Takumi gives me. I don't want to let go of my bf, and all our promises and dreams together. And this is just so complicated. sadly, ive had plenty of relationships like tht sux anusss |
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Sep 20, 2008 11:22 AM
#17
HeathaZilla said: rainbow_heart said: HeathaZilla said: rainbow_heart said: "It's complicated." ^_^ Tee hee... I don't know, but it really is complicated... do explain! XD I'll just copy-paste my comment to DizzySaxy here, since it's the "summary" of the explanation. (Though it's still long. Hahaha.) I have a boyfriend, and we'll be celebrating our 2nd anniversary on the 27th. However, things are complicated right now because I think (and feel) that I don't love him anymore. I got fed up of those fights, of his attitude, and just about everything about him. And then there's this one guy, this guy, let's name him "Takumi". He's the friend of my bf, however, they aren't that close anymore because of their "attitudes" so it's the same thing as "they're not friends anymore." Takumi is a playboy. We're friends. Every time my bf and I has a problem, I always call on him, and he'll make me happy with his jokes and everything. (He's a joker, a funny guy that makes me so happy every time we talk.) I broke up with my bf last August 10. However, because of many break-ups with him, (we'll break-up then after a while we'll get back together), I don't think he believes that I totally broke up with him. When I broke up with him, I called (texted) Takumi. And then there. We became close again (after a very long time of not communicating) and I think I'm falling for him. It's ok if I'll fall in love with him, but the problem is this: It seems to me that we have a relationship now (but he never courted me or what), but that relationship is sort of like a joke. If I'll seriously fall in love with him, it will be a problem if he'll just leave me after a while. (Like Takumi in the anime NANA.) Also, I don't have the guts to tell my bf (now ex-bf) about my relationship with Takumi because he knows that Takumi is just a playboy and he is just playing with me and I'm like a cheap girl that lets Takumi play with me, and I don't want to give that impression to my ex-bf. (Fine. Even though I don't want to admit it, I can say that I'm like Hachi in the anime NANA.) The problem is this. I'm not happy with my bf anymore but I don't want to let him go, so that in case Takumi leaves me, I'll still have my bf back. BUT my relationship with Takumi is getting deeper than before, and I'm confused as to what Takumi is really feeling about me. I cannot ask him, I might be left alone if we talk about serious things. I don't know if I'm really sure that I don't love my bf anymore, because I'm occupied with the happiness Takumi gives me. I don't want to let go of my bf, and all our promises and dreams together. And this is just so complicated. sadly, ive had plenty of relationships like tht sux anusss Ah this again lol. I hope you've continued that book rainbow :) me, I'm single. |
Sep 21, 2008 11:34 AM
#18
DizzySaxophone said: HeathaZilla said: rainbow_heart said: HeathaZilla said: rainbow_heart said: "It's complicated." ^_^ Tee hee... I don't know, but it really is complicated... do explain! XD I'll just copy-paste my comment to DizzySaxy here, since it's the "summary" of the explanation. (Though it's still long. Hahaha.) I have a boyfriend, and we'll be celebrating our 2nd anniversary on the 27th. However, things are complicated right now because I think (and feel) that I don't love him anymore. I got fed up of those fights, of his attitude, and just about everything about him. And then there's this one guy, this guy, let's name him "Takumi". He's the friend of my bf, however, they aren't that close anymore because of their "attitudes" so it's the same thing as "they're not friends anymore." Takumi is a playboy. We're friends. Every time my bf and I has a problem, I always call on him, and he'll make me happy with his jokes and everything. (He's a joker, a funny guy that makes me so happy every time we talk.) I broke up with my bf last August 10. However, because of many break-ups with him, (we'll break-up then after a while we'll get back together), I don't think he believes that I totally broke up with him. When I broke up with him, I called (texted) Takumi. And then there. We became close again (after a very long time of not communicating) and I think I'm falling for him. It's ok if I'll fall in love with him, but the problem is this: It seems to me that we have a relationship now (but he never courted me or what), but that relationship is sort of like a joke. If I'll seriously fall in love with him, it will be a problem if he'll just leave me after a while. (Like Takumi in the anime NANA.) Also, I don't have the guts to tell my bf (now ex-bf) about my relationship with Takumi because he knows that Takumi is just a playboy and he is just playing with me and I'm like a cheap girl that lets Takumi play with me, and I don't want to give that impression to my ex-bf. (Fine. Even though I don't want to admit it, I can say that I'm like Hachi in the anime NANA.) The problem is this. I'm not happy with my bf anymore but I don't want to let him go, so that in case Takumi leaves me, I'll still have my bf back. BUT my relationship with Takumi is getting deeper than before, and I'm confused as to what Takumi is really feeling about me. I cannot ask him, I might be left alone if we talk about serious things. I don't know if I'm really sure that I don't love my bf anymore, because I'm occupied with the happiness Takumi gives me. I don't want to let go of my bf, and all our promises and dreams together. And this is just so complicated. sadly, ive had plenty of relationships like tht sux anusss Ah this again lol. I hope you've continued that book rainbow :) me, I'm single. wait....wut??????? who was tht rainbow thing going to? lol |
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Sep 21, 2008 7:39 PM
#19
unfortunately im single ^^' |
Sep 24, 2008 7:06 AM
#20
ShiraHitsugaya said: unfortunately im single ^^' thats not neccisarily a bad thing |
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Oct 1, 2008 9:14 AM
#21
FushiaXlust said: ShiraHitsugaya said: unfortunately im single ^^' thats not neccisarily a bad thing yeah...it could be that ur in a horrible relationship...id rather be single than abused or something...but 4 some ppl, its just as bad...so....XD |
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