Isn't this femdom?

FiddlePie said:
So I came across the manga and decide to read it and it was pretty good but I feel like this is definitely femdom. There were some chapters where the FMC was aggressively on the MC. I don't really do well when it comes to reading mangas that have femdom stuff and masochism stuff but I'd say this is okay. But I don't understand how someone gets turned on from being in pain and humiliated. There was a manhwa called No holds barred I didn't read it but the FMC does horrible things to the MC and he enjoys it. The ending was so generic. He decides to go back to the FMC who did all those horrible things to him. I believe in a relationship, there shouldn't be any aggressiveness or whatever but everyone and their preference. It should be pure and healthy with no humiliation of a partner. The humiliation of a partner isn't a relationship at all.