NoviSun said:Evil_Morty said:
Because of your statement that the main char is not pedo lol I said that, mostly because she isn’t. Not every relationship is lewd and disgusting.
Well, yea, she can be even asexual, as long as she is in love with a person who is 8 years old max it's not normal and illegal. The main character was never taught healthy patterns of love or relationships. That's why shes in love with a child and capable to kill other person. She don't even know healthy friendship, or anything like that and she lack of emotional intelligence (especially empathy). That's why someone called it pedophilic disorder and put it to DSM-5 ... If you want me to be more specific, it's called Paraphilia, you can read about it. And if you want me to be more more specific it's called ... and yea. I can't tell you how, because - I didn't find this term yet, or no one find that term yet because medicine in this topic is not developed ... I would call it an asexual pedophile, because I simply don ' t know how to call it. Technically paraphilia in DSM is described as sexual arousal, but we have still a lot of new studies about sexuality, so it will be a long time for DSM to absorb terms such as asexuality and combine it with paraphiliac disorders ...
From this point I rly can't be more specific XD
For example this blonde guy (i don't remember his name Ta-something xd) is a gr8 example of a person who gets pedophilic disorder from trauma, you can even watch him changing. For me his thoughts are also P-OCD. Believe or not, but a lot of Pedophiles had traumatic situation like this character in the past. No one is born as a pedophile ... bad parenting and socialization patterns shapes a person with a disturbed personality and behaviors, pedophilia is just one of a 834783748 / infinite (who knows rly, science about human mind / personality and shit is still young and we still don't know alot).
Also sorry if my comments earlier seems rude, I'm kinda socially awkward and I don't know often how to talk with people, especially in a hard topics. My point is, that the sentence "this is not pedophile" is not enough. And as you can see from my reaction, when you don't extend your thoughts, they may lead to misinterpretation/misunderstanding, and someone (in this case me) can simply think that for you this is normal or maybe even you have paraphilia or something which may not be the case at all. My second point was, that if we like it or not, there are children/teens here, on this site, who can read that short sentence, and (wrongly) learn from it by accident that this is something normal and socially accepted, this on the other hand can lead to other things, but i rly don't want to write a psychological book here, so... XD
We can end this conversation if you want, or idk, maybe continue. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ |