Have you been stalked by a female?
| EDIT: Nobody seems to be answering... this club is too quiet. T _ T |
reactionarySep 30, 2009 12:07 PM
Akaso said: Kind of a stupid question, honestly. No offense. I mean, if stalkers looked or acted anything like Matoi, then shit, sign me the fuck up, but they don't. Umm, what an irony, I edited out my post before cuz I didn't feel a dead club deserved my spiel, only for you to now say that, lol. but basically the jist of it was that I was stalked by a cute, harmless girl. One of my favorite past x's (exploits? haha) was a stalker of mine. But I was a tall and handsome white teenager alone in Asia. I can't imagine any stalker stateside that could come off as the cute & shy type that exists over here. I hate the uppity, tall, arrogant models that talk to me, and prefer the quiet, shy, short, girls wearing glasses (kuudere FTW!) , so I naturally gravitate to people who are too shy to naturally approach me (aka stalkers). Most of those girls will not approach me out of nervousness and they don't know I am fluent in their language. Usually they stop stalking me after the first date, but one of them didn't. Even on our first date, I was waiting for her for an hour in front of a movie theatre to date her, saw something move around a corner of a building, and her head slowly popped out. She had been watching me the whole hour. It was so f'ing cute that I was like "kawaii!!" instead of being angry. Stalking girlfriends is quite common over here I think. At least if you are popular/handsome. Even when I had a seperate girlfriend, a girl stalked me, and my girlfriend would always chase her off. I was secretly a bit upset cuz the stalker was so cute and my type... Anyways, just want to give you hope. Basically you just have to have some traits that make you something worthy of being stalked! There are stalkers that look like Matoi (my stalker ex did, but she was shorter with glasses). As for "acting" like her... not so much... because Matoi has some rather extreme violent tendencies... but then again I don't know what my stalker ex would of done to my current girlfriend if she knew... |
reactionaryJan 12, 2010 6:31 PM
Akaso said: Wait, you actually had a stalker? ...And you didn't mind. ... Not only did I not mind... I walked up to her, and asked her out in her native language (which not my own) and as I described earlier, dated her. ^ ^ reactionary said: Anyways, just want to give you hope. Akaso said: Hope? What made you think I wanted a stalker? ...Again, no offense You're in the Matoi fanclub. We're a bunch of people who love a stalker character. Akaso said: lolwut The most violent thing I remember Matoi doing was beating up Kiri offscreen. Did I miss an episode, or something? Not the first time I've heard someone say "I saw someone who looks like Matoi, I swear", but I still find it hilariously hard to believe. Well, read the manga a bit, or besides that, she has a more "violent" reaction when other women are near Itoshiki even in the anime she is clawing the pole she is hiding behind. As for believing, don't. ^ ^ I merely meant to tell it to a perhaps likeminded individual. If you are not, then the hope I thought I was giving you is pointless. I merely meant to point out my own experience dating a cute, shy, stalker of mine (not the violent, possesive kind really) and give hope to someone who seemed to have given up hope of it. You did say "if stalkers looked or acted anything like Matoi, then shit, sign me the fuck up, but they don't" so I merely meant to share a life experience of mine to the contrary. |
Akaso said: reactionary said: Wait, that's what you meant? Shit, that's not violent. It's kind of cute, actually. Haha, see? So you do like that type of stuff. Then have no fear, such women do exist. Perhaps not on your side of the ocean, cuz european/american/canadian stalker women tend to be more psychotic because they are already acting outside of a socially accepted norm and it's usually to an EX-boyfriend not a stranger, and on the flip side, why would they chase you? there's nothing special to a white guy in canada for example. Supply and demand, my dear watson. Whereas over in Asia, girls seem to stalk me because they are too nervous to approach me, rather than as possesive craziness...I'm going back over in two weeks (going to stay a year or so), and I can say with certainty I will have a few stalkers. The trick is to cross your fingers for a cute one. So far 4/5 were cute, but the one ugly stalker was really persistent... that's the one downside, cuz that does tend to get a little scary I admit. I guess "scary" for me is when I don't find them attractive, haha. That's when you schedule a business trip back to the states (or canada, eh?). They at least can't follow you back across an ocean. ;) |
Akaso said: You know, it's entirely possible to like things in fiction that you wouldn't like in real life. Hmm, but if that thing you imagine is only fiction becomes reality in precisely the manner you liked it for in the fiction world?? I believe your answer was Akaso said: then shit, sign me the fuck up |
Akaso said: Please stop taking everything I say so fucking seriously. For your own good. If you don't want people to converse with you, then stop talking. You certainly do like the f word. ^ ^ As for my own good, it would probably best be served by stopping listening to you completely. Have a good day. |
reactionary said: If you don't want people to converse with you, then stop talking. Never said I never wanted to talk to people. Just that I didn't want everything I posted to be taken as absolute proof that I TOTALLY WANT A STALKER LOLZ KAWAII. Oh, yeah, and society called, they said that's fucking creepy. reactionary said: You certainly do like the f word.  The fuck you talking about? reactionary said: As for my own good, it would probably best be served by stopping listening to you completely. Smartest thing I've heard all day. |
Akaso said: Just that I didn't want everything I posted to be taken as absolute proof that I TOTALLY WANT A STALKER LOLZ KAWAII. Once again, I remind you, you are in the Matoi fanclub. Think about this. Akaso said: Oh, yeah, and society called, they said that's fucking creepy. Odd. You don't strike me as the type who cares what society thinks of you, yet you assume I do? Regardless, society generally finds the stalker creepy, not the person who likes the stalker. But once again, that's in the West where stalkers tend to be ugly psychotics who are hunting ex-boyfriends/ex-girlfriends; not cute, harmless, shy girls who can't work up the courage to ask someone out as was the case for me. Akaso said: Smartest thing I've heard all day. Don't be so hard on yourself. ^ ^ I don't know why I try to convince people of what I consider to be good things in life. If it works, it only would drive up demand (and thus the price) of that thing. So either way is lose-lose. I guess I just wanted to see if there was anyone else out there with a similar experience. Figured of all places, a Matoi fanclub might have a likeminded individual. S'pose not. I'm out. |
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