Xingfu Lushang

Both feature female protagonists who are trying to understand themselves better and find where they belong. Taeko is unmarried, and Chi is unhappily married; both of them are not completely satisfied with their careers. They both take a trip away from the big city, with Taeko going to the countryside and Chi returning to her hometown. They often recall their childhood and formative events, and these memories drive their quest to discover what it means to be happy. 

both are coming of age movies that have an adult female as the protagonist and show a very varied range of life while having an emphasis on family life